tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86405487201422980792024-03-16T11:49:59.683-07:00知足常乐-水星投资理财的基本意念享受单身生活的小孩子水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.comBlogger1174125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-11633034082782514582024-03-12T18:47:00.000-07:002024-03-12T18:52:08.567-07:002024上半财政年<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijn8hxmYyZQjL9-RDbynwsffkDmF36ax1VVJH8P8IpJSnfnfI9GDez7sWAE95-drsfo3aJhzXGzmDrTOr_Uw0TGIP3uKVhypjWZpeZb5tFDn5wLwxnIQlx5seaPrwRr_E8_Q5sHuIMH8hw2KHZ1VoAQOIol8rI_8Oq4FjBaZVnHf8x7cJPZGVdmEPXk3o/s1448/half%20year%20dividends%202024.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1448" data-original-width="1086" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijn8hxmYyZQjL9-RDbynwsffkDmF36ax1VVJH8P8IpJSnfnfI9GDez7sWAE95-drsfo3aJhzXGzmDrTOr_Uw0TGIP3uKVhypjWZpeZb5tFDn5wLwxnIQlx5seaPrwRr_E8_Q5sHuIMH8hw2KHZ1VoAQOIol8rI_8Oq4FjBaZVnHf8x7cJPZGVdmEPXk3o/s320/half%20year%20dividends%202024.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-size: 13px;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-size: 13px;">時間過得很快,轉眼這個財政年的上半年就結束了,下個月也即將迎來水星熊的失業一周年紀念。</span></p><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">退休生活會像很多人所說的一樣很無聊嗎?目前真心不覺得是如此。水星熊認為,日子無不無聊,其實和退休關聯性不大。不懂得如何自處的人,即便是有在打工時難得的休息日或下班之後的閒暇時間,也可能會覺得無聊;反之,懂得自處的人,就算沒有一份正職的寄託,也可以活得怡然自樂,充分享受自己喜歡的人生。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">話說,這個財政年有點奇特的現象是,每一季的被動薪水都集中在第一個月,後兩個月就會明顯變少,這一點,在接下來的第三、第四季預計也是相同的情況。不過,自己的理財預算是以年為單位,所以真正影響的生活層面不大。而今年在少了繁榮稅的影響下,組合內的公司普遍都有加薪,故此今年有機會把平均月薪推上到新高的RM18k,失業了也可以持續為自己加薪,撒花。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">這是一個耐心經常缺席的年代,不少人就連看視頻也比較喜歡看不超過3分鐘的短視頻,也難怪每天都有人在苦苦尋找成功的捷徑,以為可以讓自己繞開漫長的奮鬥過程,抵達財務自主的大門。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">所以我們可以隨處看到這樣的宣傳語:“xx減肥藥,不必節食和運動,輕鬆瘦十公斤。”“xx投資培訓班,三天內讓你從零基礎到掌握股市財富秘訣。”</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">結果往往是,錢也花了,時間也花了,方法也貌似懂了,可自己依然是七竅通了六竅——一竅不通,然後,繼續被蠱惑買更好的減肥產品,上更高級的投資課程。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">而真正優秀的人都知道,所謂的捷徑其實都是看似笨拙的堅持。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">改變往往都是一個日積月累的漫長過程。不要期盼著三日不見就讓人刮目相看,也不要期望突然間就被打通任督二脈、脫胎換骨。改變是看不見的,就像我們看不見樹葉是什麼時候變黃的,頭髮是什麼時候變白的。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">至於存股時被批評説很慢、賺股息虧股價、風險比定存高等等。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">水星熊只能說,任何選擇,都可能會有壞事發生。比如,如果你選了另一個職業,新同事和新工作環境並不會擔保就比較好;如果你走了另一條投資路,得每天提心吊膽地搶進殺出,卻可能還是賺不了股息也賺不了股價。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">人生的確沒有如果。即使有這個如果,問題和困難也不過是換一種方式存在。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">選擇適合自己的路,裝備好自己以應對沿路上遇到的障礙;而不是選擇看似零風險的輕鬆路,毫無準備地一腳踏入別人精心設下的陷阱。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; 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color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">“天下無不是的父母”是全世界最自以為是的其中一句話。因為往往傷害孩子最深的人,就是他們自己的父母。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">家,確實給予許多人溫暖、保護與支持,但並非所有人都能理所當然地得到這樣完美的避風港,事實上,不少人並沒有那麼天經地義地享有這些庇護。更甚者,家,還是某些人的人生風暴起始點。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny和老公原本是同事,兩人都任職於國際知名的科技企業,他們的工作表現皆十分出眾,起初是一起合作了幾個非常成功的專案,過程中日久生情,進而開始交往。他們感情發展迅速,拍拖週年就決定步入婚姻。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>婚後兩年,Jenny懷孕了,不過得知的當下,事業心強的她,心情是矛盾的,既開心卻也擔心。除了手中還有幾個投注了不少時間與精神的專案在進行著,更擔憂因產假離開職場一陣子後,自己能不能恢復到之前的工作水準。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">寶寶出生了,當護士將寶寶抱到身邊給Jenny看時,她看著眼前放聲大哭的寶寶,Jenny原本累積在內心的不安與憂慮,就在女兒小雪誕生後不久就完全煙消雲散了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">老公在女兒出生那年決定離職創業,在公司草創時期並沒有多餘心力幫忙照顧女兒,就算Jenny能力再好,她也只有一個人,每天只有24小時,在這有限的時間內,她完全耗盡所有心力,難免偶爾會感到身心俱疲,可是她從來不喊苦,只想要給予女兒最好的照顧,也不想辜負公司對她的期待。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">某天,Jenny發現丈夫外遇了。被發現後反而變本加厲,經常晚歸甚至幾天不回家,最後丈夫提出離婚的要求,可是Jenny不甘心,認為自己為工作家庭兩頭燒,為何自己還要承受離婚的痛苦,而去成就他們的快樂,她不願意成全,後來老公乾脆就不回家了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">夫妻分居一年多,Jenny才想開,放手並不是成全他們,而是放過自己,為了讓生活重新開始,她簽字離婚,得到女兒的監護權,那年小雪五歲。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">xxx</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪成為單親小孩,對於Jenny來說,並沒有太大的差別,本來就是她一個人照顧小雪的。離婚後,她希望母女兩人的生活可以過得更好,不想讓那個負心漢獨自快活,更不想讓那些等著看她笑話的人得逞。於是,她把工作之外的全部心力都投注在小雪身上,不希望女兒因為沒有爸爸而輸人一等或被看不起,因而格外重視教育品質,並且嚴格控管女兒的生活起居。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny想方設法讓小雪進入名校就讀,找最好的家教。她不讓女兒看電視,因為那些時間該拿來看書不該浪費;她不讓女兒吃零食,只能吃她認為有營養的食物;她還會控制女兒跟同學的外出遊玩時間,不能讓一時的放縱,影響女兒的前途。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">而Jenny最常對小雪説的話,就是“乖,媽媽都是為了你好,我希望你將來能夠過好日子,能夠出人頭地,替媽媽爭一口氣。”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪一直表現得很好,很聽Jenny的話,讓她感到欣慰,畢竟要邊照顧女兒邊工作,這樣的生活實在累人。看到女兒對自己的回饋,至少她對女兒的愛並沒有白費,不像之前自己努力付出卻沒得到丈夫應有的回報。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪一直保持著傑出的成績,從小學到大學都是就讀人人稱羡的名校,按照媽媽期盼的道路前進著。Jenny升上高級經理,工作更為忙碌,可小雪從不曾讓媽媽操心,懂得照顧自己,還會準備晚餐留給加班晚歸的媽媽。同事和朋友總是説Jenny好命,有這麼乖巧懂事的好女兒。小雪大學畢業後,繼續攻讀博士班,最後取得雙博士學位。身邊人的讚美與嫉妒,讓Jenny覺得不枉費她多年的苦心,終於可以揚眉吐氣。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">之後,小雪進入一家國際公司工作,待遇與福利都很不錯,女兒的人生似乎在媽媽的照料下有了良好的發展,Jenny心想接下來需要費心的,就是替女兒找一個好歸宿了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny開始替小雪物色合適的對象,安排相親,起初小雪還願意配合媽媽的心意,幾次之後便開始抗拒Jenny的相親要求。小雪從小到大,生活上的大小事情都聽媽媽的指令,大至人生規劃,小至三餐內容,凡事都以Jenny的意見為主,唯獨結婚對象這件事她説什麼都不願意順從。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪對媽媽柔聲地説:“結婚又不保證幸福一輩子,我有媽媽就很幸福了。”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny聽到女兒的這番話固然開心,可是她心裡明白自己不可能陪著小雪一輩子,終究還是希望有個優秀的男人可以幇自己好好照顧女兒。因此,依舊不死心的要求小雪試著和不同的男生見面。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny:“只是見個面聊聊天,多交朋友也沒什麼不好啊!”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪:“媽,我如果想要交朋友,自己會去認識的。”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny的聲音開始大聲:“媽媽都是為了你好,我幫你選的肯定都是條件很好的男生,聼媽媽的話准沒錯。”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪堅決地説:“我不要。”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny開始歇斯底里:“你現在長大了,是不是就不想聼媽媽的話了?可以看到你嫁人是媽媽現在唯一的願望,難道要等媽媽老了、死了,你才甘願結婚?還是打算讓你媽死不瞑目?”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪無奈地説:“我又不是這個意思,幹嘛要這樣講,你要我去,我就去!”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">在爆發這場兩母女之間最激烈的一場爭吵後,這個約小雪並沒有去成。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">xxx</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">幾天後的晚上,Jenny下班回到家,家裡一片漆黑,打開燈後,發現桌上沒有小雪準備好的晚餐,她對著房間幾次叫著女兒的名字,卻沒有應聲,她想打開門查看時,發現锁住了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">她直覺情況有異,用力拍打著房門并持續大喊,可是房內依然沒有任何動靜。她慌亂恐懼地拿備份鑰匙打開房門,卻發現不好推開,原來門縫都被膠帶封住了,地上有一組還在冒著煙的烤肉用碳爐,而小雪躺在床上,看起來就像是安然熟睡的模樣,她一邊大哭,一邊試圖叫醒女兒,可是任由她怎麼哭喊,小雪就是沒有反應,她急忙打電話求救。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">急診室外,Jenny一個人焦急等待,不斷祈求上天,希望小雪能夠平安無事。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">她從口袋拿出一封信來,那是她在救護人員準備將小雪帶離房間時,在書桌上看到的,她趕緊把信收起來,便隨著救護人員上車到醫院。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">她從信封內取出折得整整齊齊的信紙,上面是小雪工整的字跡——</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">“媽媽,</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">對不起,我讓你失望了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">自從爸爸離開後,我明白你為了我犧牲很多,付出很多時間、精神,還有金錢,你為我所做的一切,我心存感激,我也期望自己能夠回應你所給予的全部,所以從小到大我都儘量聽從你的話,儘量達成你希望我做到的事情,只因我希望媽媽會開心,然後以我為榮。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">可是,那樣的我並不是真正的我。其實,一直以來我過得很不開心,每天都處在壓力與痛苦之中。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">媽媽,你應該不知道我以前在學校被同學嘲笑是怪胎吧。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">同學每次約我去玩,我總是拒絕他們,其實,我好想跟他們出去玩。想要跟他們去唱歌、看電影、逛逛街。久而久之,大家都認為我是怪人、是個自以為清高的人。你連唯一一次的畢業旅行也不肯讓我參加,你知道嗎?全班只有我沒參加,我連最後一次留下美好記憶的機會也被你剝奪了。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">你在乎的,永遠只有我的成績。只要考試的名次稍微往下掉,你的眉頭就會皺起,然後表現出我竟然讓你如此失望的神情,每每都讓我感到愧疚萬分。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">大學畢業後,我本來想出國讀心理學,可是你希望我讀比較有前景的電機工程,我知道你想把我留在你身邊,所以我放棄了,因為不想看到你不開心。從小我就知道,因為爸爸的離開,自己必須和媽媽站在同一陣線,不然就是叛徒。只要不聽媽媽的話,就是一種背叛。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">我的心情一直被媽媽的態度左右著。“我是不是很糟糕?” “我這樣做對嗎?” “媽媽會不會不開心?” 每一天都在自我懷疑中度日。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">學業與工作都照著媽媽的意願走,我告訴自己,媽媽是為了我好,沒有關係的。只是,後來連我的交往對象也要干涉,我明白你是真心希望我幸福,才會千方百計要我去相親,我也試著讓自己配合,至少做個樣子也好。可是,感情這件事我越發無法這樣說服自己,不想連這也被你控制著,我不敢告訴媽媽,其實我喜歡的是女生,我是個同性戀。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">我多次從旁試探性提出這話題,媽媽都說這是無可救藥的罪行。我想媽媽應該無法接受這樣的我,因為這樣的我一定會讓媽媽感到失望與挫折吧?想到這裡,我又有了很深的愧疚與罪惡。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">媽媽,請你原諒我,我最終還是無法達成你的期望。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小雪”</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny讀到最後,在急診室外放聲大哭,沒想到自己口口聲聲為了孩子好,最後卻把孩子逼到絕境還不如。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">xxx</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">會控制別人的人,往往無法控制自己;被別人控制的人,卻往往控制著自己。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Jenny與小雪的故事不斷在我們的社會上輪播,人物角色不同、情節有所異動、結局也有些改寫,但問題的本質卻是相同的。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">從小不斷被父母灌輸上一代的觀念、被長輩用情感扣緊的孩子們,好像擁有自己的想法是相當不對的事。因為父母總是展現出為了孩子無怨無悔的付出,好像沒有了他們的付出就沒有下一代,使得孩子們的內心永遠虧欠父母,也把聽從父母視為天經地義的事。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">事實上,只要面對血緣關係與情緒勒索,我們多半是感到束手無策。面對朋友,我們可以選擇不相往來;面對情人,我們可以選擇分手;可是,一旦面對生養自己的父母,水星熊相信對大部分的人來說都不容易輕易斷絕關係。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">被關係勒索的孩子,只要一有違背長輩意志的行為與想法,立刻就會遭到指責或打擊,於是轉而壓抑自己的意願與情緒。他們相信只要滿足他人,自己就不會被責難,或許就會快樂一些,然而結果並非如此,只會陷入自我厭惡的循環。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">想對父母説,孩子是獨立的個體,他們擁有自己的人生,並非是你們人生的延伸,千萬別用親情來威脅、勒索,藉此達成自己的要求。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">或許,我們該學著把親子關係重新看待,不妨將彼此視為一個平凡的長輩、一個尋常的年輕人,用像是對待外人的態度相互尊重,用友善的語氣溝通,不說出連自己也會討厭的話。終有一日,將會明白彼此是牽絆,而不是拘束。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">而身為子女的你,也不要只會聽話,而是要思考。有些權益是透過溝通,甚至是對抗而來的,任何進步,都是在衝突與交流中產生。但也不是要你一味反抗,而是多一點時間思考事情的緣由與道理。或許父母說的話不見得正確,但你所想要的理由是否也站得住腳呢?雙方必須試著從中尋找適合彼此關係的平衡與解答。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">我們的人生不是用來滿足別人的願望,寶貴的時間是用來滿足自己,除非心有餘力,再來替別人完成他們想做的事。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">父母該適時把人生歸還給孩子,而子女也該把責任歸還給父母。成年後,我們都該扛起各自的責任,而不能再將自己的決定怪罪任何人。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; 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text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDeb956r1lGpiY3prgkX_iyZ2732Ze8ZKeYKxifE4jm5ru5xYg3VEqFHq26i0JjjEZCiDwNmryiPus_ueStBFZoDi3fGV9p6ouLg7KsRg_GbyJI54znUGY9xuMgk_aGQ10qbXX1F_drsN1h5qPLgxfyTS2tiWq-AWeKD-DJ2aG-X6Cflyd6dFbZIgqDtU/s2048/STAR%20OCEAN%202%20R.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDeb956r1lGpiY3prgkX_iyZ2732Ze8ZKeYKxifE4jm5ru5xYg3VEqFHq26i0JjjEZCiDwNmryiPus_ueStBFZoDi3fGV9p6ouLg7KsRg_GbyJI54znUGY9xuMgk_aGQ10qbXX1F_drsN1h5qPLgxfyTS2tiWq-AWeKD-DJ2aG-X6Cflyd6dFbZIgqDtU/s320/STAR%20OCEAN%202%20R.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">完成《星海遊俠2》重製版的白金獎盃,一款20多年前的遊戲被重新製作呈現在現代玩家前,能夠成為經典的,確實經得起時間的考驗。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">小時候水星熊玩遊戲,畫面簡陋無妨,遊戲性好玩就行;長大後水星熊玩遊戲,畫面簡陋依然無妨,不過由於更能明白遊戲的劇情,所以除了遊戲性,故事的精彩程度和引發的深思也很重要。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>男主自小在父親的權威和名氣下成長,旁人都認為他是個靠父親上位的人,導致他對自我的認同感很低,直到遇上女主後的一連串冒險才讓他重新認識自我。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">從男主的經歷水星熊領悟到,我們之所以會那麼期待有人在乎自己,或許最大的原因在於我們並不夠在乎自己。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">別再期望讓他人來給予,或是等待別人改變態度,與其奢望那些自己無法左右的事,不如調整自己能夠主宰的心情。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">有時,不是現狀使人鬱悶,而是你用鬱悶的心態看待自己所處的環境。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">當我們理解自己的人生不是非誰不可,自然會慢慢懂得以“看顧好自己的心情”為原則來思考生活方式。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-43393958721579653752024-02-27T05:34:00.000-08:002024-02-27T05:34:52.607-08:00胸無大志的咖灰機?<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCdzCcogZcDc30ykaRWAuarLrsgAQOa6DN5A5tymXGk3JHiHe8V04etgxNRgIf9-kCHc8CUl80NBMfr6nxzv4Ln56S9i6Cw7K0yRJHUQJ2PP6E6X1XrohvBpz73eIl90Kw5FltMZFijOUyCyXOsEYdtyW65nqJJZKRaREAim7ZXcYfB8GB9Q2CgNhxE0E/s960/uchitech%202023%20final%20season%20report.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="520" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCdzCcogZcDc30ykaRWAuarLrsgAQOa6DN5A5tymXGk3JHiHe8V04etgxNRgIf9-kCHc8CUl80NBMfr6nxzv4Ln56S9i6Cw7K0yRJHUQJ2PP6E6X1XrohvBpz73eIl90Kw5FltMZFijOUyCyXOsEYdtyW65nqJJZKRaREAim7ZXcYfB8GB9Q2CgNhxE0E/s320/uchitech%202023%20final%20season%20report.jpg" width="173" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">咖灰機剛公佈了2023年最後一季的業績,也意味著它終於走完了稅務優惠大減的艱辛首年。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">在稅務增加10倍的不利情況下,依然可以凭硬實力打出漂亮戰績的一年,自己真的很意外也很欣慰。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">即便把11.3m賣產業的一次性盈利拿掉,稅前盈利也有23%的提昇,而來到稅後盈利,全年的每股EPS也還是有27仙左右,基本和去年不相上下,在壓倒性不利的稅務率下可以有如此出色的表現,管理層值得一個贊。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>最終的全年稅率大約20%,和當初預計的差不多,雖然稅務優惠減少,但畢竟不是全部失去,所以稅率比一般的公司低的優勢還是有在。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">而水星熊最在乎的股息,慷慨的管理層也大方地宣佈了5仙中期+7.5仙終期股息,全年29.5仙,對比去年25仙(不算5仙特別股息)有了18%的加薪。如果扣除一次性的盈利,今年大概也可以派27仙,還是比去年加薪8%。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">近期被動收入加薪的消息陸續來臨,比如駭客的25%和倫平的10%加薪,相信主力之一的老虎銀行也會在本周宣佈加薪的好消息,但還是不如咖灰機在今年的加薪帶給水星熊的感動來得高。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">另外,咖灰機今年在派息手法方面也有了變化,往年都是一年兩次,分別在第三和第四季才宣佈。今年從第二季開始就有派息,這季還分開中期和終期兩輪派,全年總共四次。個人覺得管理層似乎有意改成每季都派息,對小股東而言,能夠早拿早享受也是一件好事,重要的還是努力把生意給經營好。無論如何,純屬猜測,拭目以待。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">季報裡比較可愛的是,對於未來的展望,管理層也一如以往的坦誠,大刺刺地在季報寫下了明年以美元計算的營收會有“中個位數”的下降,大概就是減少4-6%左右的意思。不刻意美化、不給假希望、不會想維護股價而只報喜不報憂、踏實做好本分、以行動和實績說話,管理層的這種特質,也是自己喜歡咖灰機的主要理由之一。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">走得快的人,未必一路領先到底;走得慢的人或許收穫意外驚喜。關鍵不是曇花一現的一時速度,而是找到屬於自己的長期節奏。在此之前,我們需要多一點耐心。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">想起近來有人問起水星熊是否滿意安於現狀的退休生活。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">安於現狀,並沒有不好,那也是我們人生眾多選項之一。沒有人規定人生非得胸懷大志才行,想要安於現狀過著安定平穩的生活也是需要付出對等的努力,甚至要捨棄更多的事物。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">有些人年少時意氣風發,卻晚景淒涼。有些人曾經一路坎坷,最後漸入佳境。無論我們選擇了什麼樣的道路,總是有高有低,不可能一路平坦,就像咖灰機,或是我們的投資路。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">所有的境遇,不管是溫柔,是挫折,還是感傷,是那些經驗豐富了我們的生命與心靈。如果你覺得日子過於平淡,說不定在別人眼裡也是一種美好。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">祝你順利,就算無法事事順利,也願你無懼顛簸。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-373842984143245222024-02-20T04:09:00.000-08:002024-02-20T04:09:55.686-08:00百萬熊的本金<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZCWGuDn3sk_N5d5tYksxFtYP2_axKyhDyLO_FVD7P0yn5WPawpNhNEtb8fj2OuWL_Irb6Uhv-bpc4ahoAI7igLTRa5XKpjUv2XgRhY45Lxj3Va89cO7Y6NRjqzClW2fItm5Ws0Lms__hw2-_LxsKEuwdlVaMrGyEkX4MDG9z6z0QZp8ndmQasd7Zj7D8/s1448/million%20bear.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1448" data-original-width="1086" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZCWGuDn3sk_N5d5tYksxFtYP2_axKyhDyLO_FVD7P0yn5WPawpNhNEtb8fj2OuWL_Irb6Uhv-bpc4ahoAI7igLTRa5XKpjUv2XgRhY45Lxj3Va89cO7Y6NRjqzClW2fItm5Ws0Lms__hw2-_LxsKEuwdlVaMrGyEkX4MDG9z6z0QZp8ndmQasd7Zj7D8/s320/million%20bear.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-size: 13px;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-size: 13px;"><br /></span></p><p><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-size: 13px;">水星熊常被問到的問題之一,就是投入了多少資金達到如今的組合規模。現在就公開答案,其實水星熊僅僅花了不到5千馬幣,而且在很短時間內就輕鬆成為了百萬熊,昨天剛在MV換了百多萬韓元為下個月的旅行做準備。。。(烏鴉靜靜飛過)</span></p><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">隱私關係,只能說目前的組合數額中,真正從主動收入投入的金額占了約25%左右,另外的75%則是透過十多年以來的資本利得和股息再投入來的。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">十多年那麼慢?</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">是的,非常慢。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">在股市裡,水星熊知道有一些大膽出擊的人,在非常短的時間內,就賺到了十數甚至數十倍的盈利,對於他們的成就,自己只能salute致敬。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">水星熊從來沒有過這樣的成就,過去沒有,將來也不會有。因為小時候家裡過著被追債的窮困生活,自己對金錢的安全感需求很高,也很“怕死”,風險承受能力不高。對於目前花了十數年取得的一點點成績,雖然微不足道,但十分珍惜,也怕打回原形,所以只敢冒計算中的風險,不敢購買沒有基本面支撐、短期內無故暴漲暴跌的股,因為水星熊輸不起,但也從不為這些錯失而後悔。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">水星熊知道自己的侷限,也早已接受一個事實——有些錢是水星熊無法賺到的,自己并無任何可以短時間內暴賺致富的捷徑,但水星熊倒可以肯定,只要遵循正道投資,即便是打工族也是可以達到財務自主的。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">穩紮穩打的保守作風雖然讓水星熊無法一夜致富,但也使自己避過不少陷阱,夜裡睡得香甜。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">當然自己的投資策略也不可能做到百分百勝率,總有失手的時候,即便這世界是以成敗論英雄,但水星熊從不認為之前付出的努力都是白費力氣,我們都會在過程中獲得些什麼。努力過後還是可能不如預期,但不努力卻可以預期只有差勁的結果。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">日本棒球巨星鈴木一朗有句名言:“我從不因為四、五天的失敗,就認為過去一整年所做的努力都是白費。”</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">股息路很寂寞,不要期望自己的努力被他人理解,但一定要對自己有所鼓勵。你的所有努力,不是為了讓別人覺得了不起,也不是為了和誰比高下,更不是要做給別人看,而是為了對得起自己,同時也是為了讓自己的人生變得更好。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">想要達到好成果的方法不難懂,就是不斷累積那些看似微不足道的小事。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;">有時,好結果需要好運氣。但,我們要先努力,才有可能得到好運氣。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCQ0MNgxKtZU2swNEegirKhNZ5fR1GYj87C0HO8Fr9GUju4AN4VzsRqv4F_F6IAHtngD8vlzO8tmP-ePGtAK5pi7v8sfMffodlPirpci4DufJ2hsfJWMQPqLY8yU4lDAiv6E2uA2rKmTqkLi6qaH3hsqFkLjL68TBesXn8k5jXSvP1T95UaJeJTUK-mJ4/s1614/ang%20pow%20for%20million%20bear.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1614" data-original-width="1031" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCQ0MNgxKtZU2swNEegirKhNZ5fR1GYj87C0HO8Fr9GUju4AN4VzsRqv4F_F6IAHtngD8vlzO8tmP-ePGtAK5pi7v8sfMffodlPirpci4DufJ2hsfJWMQPqLY8yU4lDAiv6E2uA2rKmTqkLi6qaH3hsqFkLjL68TBesXn8k5jXSvP1T95UaJeJTUK-mJ4/s320/ang%20pow%20for%20million%20bear.JPG" width="204" /></a></div><br /><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-72094333528625550922024-02-12T19:09:00.000-08:002024-02-20T04:10:11.121-08:00開工大吉<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-wM3LsTfe4JZU6dSdsk4_bYC767lCbNVkTXwMd7-YPw8dOCl7zhygTI_9CPvXW6EZFnhDTZoj8URwfhvkMV0RAV_ue91ot7VrH5a9rBPEwWMpseYpLgafvw-S-R4kUfacBwK0dpChuZSETeqX89FAW0-Kqh4CKdjyfjdvcCw0ORruA8xpSjVAVPBoYWQ/s960/BEAR%20CINEMA.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-wM3LsTfe4JZU6dSdsk4_bYC767lCbNVkTXwMd7-YPw8dOCl7zhygTI_9CPvXW6EZFnhDTZoj8URwfhvkMV0RAV_ue91ot7VrH5a9rBPEwWMpseYpLgafvw-S-R4kUfacBwK0dpChuZSETeqX89FAW0-Kqh4CKdjyfjdvcCw0ORruA8xpSjVAVPBoYWQ/s320/BEAR%20CINEMA.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今天是不少人的開工日,水星熊祝大家開工混吉。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">職場就是社會,也是江湖,什麼樣的人都有。人多自然會複雜,複雜就會有各種角力,有角力就會有高低,有了高低,也會衍生各種不公平、不合理的存在。明明是團隊,能力優秀的人得承擔更多的事情,偷懶推諉的人卻樂得輕鬆自在。明明下決定的是經理,結果不如預期被老闆責怪,這個黑鍋卻是你來扛。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">或許你感到灰心,覺得不是所有的努力都能得到相應的回報,不是每個人的能力都能換來相應的尊重。但,到處對人訴苦,抱怨公司的不是與委屈,對事情並沒有多大的助益和改善。因為你訴苦的對象通常都是同溫層,他們並無力改變,唯一的功能是讓你抒發心情。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>生氣不如爭氣,一時的抱怨,有益身心健康。但,真正想要讓現況改變,是要讓自己變強,展現出你的價值,讓公司另眼相待。當你沒有足夠的實力,即使去了新的環境,依然會面對相同的不公。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">職場是現實的,沒有實力的人,永遠只能處於弱勢,與其繼續抱怨,不如努力增加自己可以被尊重的籌碼。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">在職場上,天天都有討厭的人事物,翻完白眼、找時間宣洩一下就算了。別氣太久,因為類似的事每天都有出現,我們要保留一點力氣。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">與其哀傷,不如加強情商;與其生氣,不如好好爭氣;與其灰心,不如先放開心。任何職位或權力,都沒有把自己的生活過好來得重要,怎麼取捨,怎麼衡量,那就是個人的功課。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">若你真的受了委屈,有經濟能力的話大可以選擇瀟灑離開,如果暫時還沒有能力,那就學會面對那些不公平,默默做事,好好做人,先儲備實力,再來與人談條件。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">龍年共勉。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-8794292126243416332024-02-04T23:47:00.000-08:002024-02-04T23:48:07.925-08:00沒有零風險的路<p> </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEPVAMK1B5xSzTcYvxt1Mig7SxKKEZHao3VPFGUB4GE_sWOkE9j0o3XBoOsxtn7qBu6BZBocGAJIMSHLPJlWM3wdiBCfyhPq9L8z54-roWHTLfpZD1ALZ7pIETahOzbHsVZgrgtt7D_aUzGni33mIQsa0eCxUnUTPxWRNv-UPZqyd3wM_ZKTh0DRvUMUs/s1080/%E6%94%B6%E5%B7%A5%E9%85%92.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="810" data-original-width="1080" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgEPVAMK1B5xSzTcYvxt1Mig7SxKKEZHao3VPFGUB4GE_sWOkE9j0o3XBoOsxtn7qBu6BZBocGAJIMSHLPJlWM3wdiBCfyhPq9L8z54-roWHTLfpZD1ALZ7pIETahOzbHsVZgrgtt7D_aUzGni33mIQsa0eCxUnUTPxWRNv-UPZqyd3wM_ZKTh0DRvUMUs/s320/%E6%94%B6%E5%B7%A5%E9%85%92.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">農曆新年將至,雖然水星熊已經退出職場,但在大姐的邀約下還是可以參加她中藥店的收工酒。</span><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">看著大姐的創業路、員工的打工路、還有水星熊的股息路,頗有感觸。</span><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none; text-combine: lines;">說實話,無論是退休生活或投資路,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-ligatures: none; text-combine: lines;">水星熊都不知道要怎樣過才不算後悔。 因為任何一種活法都會存在後悔和遺憾,任何一種選擇都存在風險</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none; text-combine: lines;">。 </span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">就像法國哲學家保羅所說:</span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">“</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">當你發明了輪船,就發明了海難;當你發明了飛機,就發明了空難。 </span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">你不能因為有風險就拒絕一切改變或投入,不能因為</span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">“</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">可能徒勞無功</span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Cambria, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">”</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">就乾脆不勞了。 你該追求的,不是零後悔和零錯誤,而是儘可能讓自己少一些遺憾</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">還是那句話,現在你不努力去讓自己過上想要的生活,那麼以後,你就會有大把大把的時間,去過自己不想要的生活</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">沒有誰生下來就是強勢的</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">一定是經歷了很多無助的日子</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">看透了很多人情冷暖,才會逐漸的變得堅強</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">你會發現</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">當你自己開始經濟獨立,人格獨立</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">當你開始不用依靠任何人的時候</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">就不會有什麼患得患失,不會有什麼多愁善感</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 11.5pt;">學會把自己的心安交給你自己</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #050505; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 11.5pt;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #050505; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span></p><p>
</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div></div></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-25357814206311286452024-01-17T22:12:00.000-08:002024-01-17T22:12:24.494-08:00人走茶涼的收工宴<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkCUbHkQjm854i6s4A6OfTnj94A17MOPIfSeODbF0sFh7LxSEKkpXo2QB3NFwKUwSpPnH2tbQ9A_zlfgW-TYINNF3g9UKYXTfxypDmy7mu799Ojb5613AYplcUhVQ-OZbWf1s6VzjmwV7nK_lvYgYXnGmiggT2pNhWsrFiOiQtKnFp-OFynV-8cO3GFK8/s960/working%20Brown.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="948" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkCUbHkQjm854i6s4A6OfTnj94A17MOPIfSeODbF0sFh7LxSEKkpXo2QB3NFwKUwSpPnH2tbQ9A_zlfgW-TYINNF3g9UKYXTfxypDmy7mu799Ojb5613AYplcUhVQ-OZbWf1s6VzjmwV7nK_lvYgYXnGmiggT2pNhWsrFiOiQtKnFp-OFynV-8cO3GFK8/s320/working%20Brown.jpg" width="316" /></a></div><br /><p></p><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">分享昨晚聽到的故事,朋友公司裡的一位不同部門的經理因為家裡的關係遞出了辭呈,原本他的職位是不動如山,穩當得做到退休也大有可能。這下頓時成了人人覬覦的“好缺”,有望接任的人各個磨刀霍霍。終於,這職位最後落在一個之前原本就跟這個經理關係極好的人身上,屬於自己人,並不太意外。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">因為時間點的關係,歡送會辦在公司的尾牙,也就是收工宴之前。歡送會餐桌上,他的部門手下如喪偶般地捨不得這位經理,算是轟轟烈烈地送他離開公司。酒酣耳熱之際,所有人都說了一些感性的話,仿佛對方是再造恩人般的重要。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">一週以後,職務正式交接完畢,大夥又重新聚在收工宴酒桌上,那天恰巧也是那位經理最後一天上班。宴席中,卻沒有人過去跟他敬酒,就連他曾經照拂過的那位升職替代他的自己人,也因為忙著跟其他大老闆攀交情而冷落了他。該經理一個人默默吃著飯,想跟誰說句話,才發現身邊坐著的都是一些自己不熟悉的同事,只能微笑點頭,任由氣氛尷尬,之後,沒到抽獎環節就含糊其詞一個藉口,走了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">朋友道:“都說人走茶涼,親眼見到還是不免唏噓。”</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">人總以為被簇擁的是自己,後來才知道被簇擁的是頭銜,是背後有個大公司的光環。權位是魔法,一旦離開那個位子,豪華馬車一秒鐘變回南瓜。戀棧權位老是被說得極為不堪,但雙手奉上權位給一個人時,沒有人覺得不香。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">朋友説:“説什麼公司需要我們呢?其實是我們需要公司。名片上,自己的名字前面如果沒有冠個抬頭,在江湖走跳誰會理你?”</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">年輕時,不少人自認什麼都可以失去,因為本來也什麼都沒有。中年以後,卻發現自己也被某些身份上的稱謂綁架,貪戀著因身份伴隨而來的好處與名聲。曾自以為非凡清高,實際也不免淪為一介俗人。認清了也好,至少不再自欺欺人。人走茶涼是常態,人走了,茶還熱著,不是才奇怪嗎?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">聯想到,這也是傳道人的井。人到了一個高度,就不太想進步了,於是,開始躺在成績上睡覺,為什麼許多時候教會了學生,餓死了師傅?是因為師父放棄了進步,而徒弟還在突飛猛進著,是因為師父懂得教別人,卻不懂救自己。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">正面一點思考,職銜背後始終需要某種個人能力的支持才能長久,好比股價長期穩定與上漲的背後也需要有良好基本面的支撐,只要不斷增進自己的實力,再往別處去高就、創業、或創造屬於自己的被動收入,那麼手上的這杯茶就永遠會熱著。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;">共勉。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px;" /><div><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-size: medium;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-size: medium;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></span></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-63303275492725924172024-01-15T23:44:00.000-08:002024-01-15T23:45:00.086-08:00PNG暴动<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhC4VUJxxcn_sXhiJNCj_MdvFPJl1DpcEySwAr7Ip0T_L2B86UNeMhwnaiTSBiSKq0A4CLcUUr-JKvxOsOMIETjET5pg3Zpn4nIxtNBesYWIRKYnffQfZN0iXa5ApSTzrivPIEn3-luK-sRVWrd96deXJ3akUur_JmGM9h3ngMaWxSGcYFRZlnv6HmCmhs/s2048/PNG%20riot%20news.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="926" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhC4VUJxxcn_sXhiJNCj_MdvFPJl1DpcEySwAr7Ip0T_L2B86UNeMhwnaiTSBiSKq0A4CLcUUr-JKvxOsOMIETjET5pg3Zpn4nIxtNBesYWIRKYnffQfZN0iXa5ApSTzrivPIEn3-luK-sRVWrd96deXJ3akUur_JmGM9h3ngMaWxSGcYFRZlnv6HmCmhs/s320/PNG%20riot%20news.jpg" width="145" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這星期PNG發生嚴重暴動,看到新聞後水星熊和還在PNG打工的舊同事聊了電話,據他描述這是他在當地生活十多年以來最嚴重的一次暴動,一半以上的超市都被搶劫一空和放火燒燬,機場被封鎖,店鋪也都關門沒做生意,週三週四處於戒嚴不外出的狀態,當然少不了死傷,他在家裡也可不時聽到遠處傳來的槍聲。。。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">以前水星熊熊在那邊也遇過幾次暴動,不過都是由平民開展的,而這次則是由警察主導,所以威力不可同日而語,軍方在第二天介入才勉強壓制了下來,目前處於緊張氛圍。據悉是公務員薪水沒有準時發放而引起的一場悲劇。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZiH9bZLQuZqmDITu9yjRfxWmBrAodEjD2eq3agXw2OZSeN88aGGwYTRjxYA51TU_oOR4fvJPpY_yuMYAq42opWBQ7muT56b4iCCuzd6FyGXWsaqk9DLcE7P-AxMKk6J8VuGBINQFYB2xUB86B-PHa9LWWv9c4CKn58XNGh2at0WT54euvR1FjDiRAgyE/s2048/%E5%86%B7%E7%9C%BCPNG.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZiH9bZLQuZqmDITu9yjRfxWmBrAodEjD2eq3agXw2OZSeN88aGGwYTRjxYA51TU_oOR4fvJPpY_yuMYAq42opWBQ7muT56b4iCCuzd6FyGXWsaqk9DLcE7P-AxMKk6J8VuGBINQFYB2xUB86B-PHa9LWWv9c4CKn58XNGh2at0WT54euvR1FjDiRAgyE/s320/%E5%86%B7%E7%9C%BCPNG.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">剛好讀到冷眼前輩《千山我獨行》中他到PNG工作的體驗,文中描述的那種看似誇張的保安狀況和當地人拿到薪水後要把薪水和親友分享的文化等,在那邊打工十數年的水星熊看到後都有無限的熟悉感。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>而他提到不敢再踏入巴布亞新幾內亞一步的故事也讓水星熊會心一笑。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">選擇離鄉背井的遊子,年輕時為了財務和過上更好的生活而身臨風險高的地方工作,或許是自己能力不足下,別無選擇時的無可奈何,還不時被一旁看熱鬧的人揶揄在國外輕鬆高薪打工族、容易存股也是理所应當。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">人們往往只看到人前侃侃而談的博學者,卻忽視了他寒窗苦讀的沉默和艱辛。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">熬過不能選擇的時候,就能選擇自己想要的生活,為在外打拼的人打氣加油,也希望還身處PNG的朋友都可以平安無事。<span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><br /></span></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="x3nfvp2 x1j61x8r x1fcty0u xdj266r xhhsvwb xat24cr xgzva0m xxymvpz xlup9mm x1kky2od" style="display: inline-flex; font-family: inherit; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: middle; width: 16px;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><br /></p><div style="color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"></div></span></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-30498279706194119112024-01-09T16:30:00.000-08:002024-01-09T16:30:41.726-08:00持有10年以上的主力 <p><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228;"><br /></span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdABQcYtcNvBvtfs9wuCfCNzFzDdZDY7JtmhYkOwB9UheKta-zsCiLYp-dOwnPZJAAzHp-kjclCXKzHoGJa0wEB9Jq8uA_nDo8DzW6UG4_0829ozfsPM2G6P2yzp1Uk5tXYLwDE6y6Mx3FZQn8mQCUWHDuTeVqxGqsmMQk3xa1Gv7Z5AKr1ceXSKqu2yM/s1913/Screenshot_20240110_082332_edit_1036424032751390.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1913" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdABQcYtcNvBvtfs9wuCfCNzFzDdZDY7JtmhYkOwB9UheKta-zsCiLYp-dOwnPZJAAzHp-kjclCXKzHoGJa0wEB9Jq8uA_nDo8DzW6UG4_0829ozfsPM2G6P2yzp1Uk5tXYLwDE6y6Mx3FZQn8mQCUWHDuTeVqxGqsmMQk3xa1Gv7Z5AKr1ceXSKqu2yM/s320/Screenshot_20240110_082332_edit_1036424032751390.jpg" width="181" /></a></div><br /><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span face=""Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228;">水星熊收到這封讀者來信後,好奇去查了一下記錄,目前是2024年1月,所以直接看主力組合中從2014年1月前買且保留到今天的公司股份。</span></p><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">原來只有LPI和Uchitech兩家符合問題的要求,而且還談不上是來信中的“不管股息率多少,都不離不棄”。因為股息法從來就不等同於“盲目存股一輩子”,自己在持有的期間,也有因某段時間認為其股價被高估而賣出一部分套利,後來在回調時才再收集回來。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">剛好兩家公司都持有了12年左右,趁機算算看從初始買入開始的回酬(計算中已納入期間的紅股和capital repayment等調整)</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">LPI:</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">買入價RM7.68</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">資本利得: RM4.72</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">累積股息: RM7.00</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">12年總回酬153%或年複利率 8%+</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">Uchitech:</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">買入價: RM0.89</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">資本利得: RM 2.82</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">累積股息: RM 1.83</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">12年總回酬520%或年複利率 16%+</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">以前曾說過,即便是水星熊那著重股息的組合,其實把時間拉長來看,一般而言資本利得的回酬還是比股息來得高的,因為必需兼顧“成長”這個因素,才能確保未來有股息加薪的可能,也才能達到自己年回酬12%的目標,咖灰機就是一個很典型的個案,LPI在這方面倒是一個股息多過資本利得的個案,也因而可以看出其年複利回酬率并沒有達到個人的要求,但它還是一支防禦性很高的公司,所以目前還是被保留了下來。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">向來奉承“長期收息”的水星熊主力組合裡竟然只有兩家公司的持有期在10年以上,而且期間還有賣出過股份,乍看下水星熊是一隻“始亂終棄”熊,可能回應不到讀者對“長期投資”的期待,但是,當你越來越優秀,你就開始理解,其實很多時候,一件事沒分絕對的好壞對錯,一個人只是處在不同頻率、不同立場、不同階段時做了不同選擇,有個好心態,走的路會更廣闊。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;">不論是投資還是人生,不要活在別人的定義裡,做自己生活裡的主角,做你自己,愛你的人自然會愛你。</div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; outline: none;"><br /></div><div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; 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text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="font-size: 13px; outline: none;" /></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-61139601020313156812024-01-03T17:47:00.000-08:002024-01-03T17:48:06.336-08:00冷眼《決戰股市終極方案》的提醒<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifdZlUYg3b8A1DpH6vjHrpO8Njkg5rRClF_BdT9FKfQTO6CePesZQ-OWVJV4TWiWKFb8PSApvLyyv4Nlskx6eRDcvlN99a3zz14doI4-yaTzWeGRUAJRx7uxBcYRqhKAocTH9E75-vCtUJrYN-p3a67AJvLVe7w3GX4AZkhyjgZV36RDBZJ3ldn6Jh5F0/s1448/leng%20yan%20book%20cover.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1448" data-original-width="1086" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifdZlUYg3b8A1DpH6vjHrpO8Njkg5rRClF_BdT9FKfQTO6CePesZQ-OWVJV4TWiWKFb8PSApvLyyv4Nlskx6eRDcvlN99a3zz14doI4-yaTzWeGRUAJRx7uxBcYRqhKAocTH9E75-vCtUJrYN-p3a67AJvLVe7w3GX4AZkhyjgZV36RDBZJ3ldn6Jh5F0/s320/leng%20yan%20book%20cover.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;" /></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-83395848993895151792023-12-29T02:56:00.000-08:002023-12-29T02:57:07.125-08:002023结尾文~感恩有你<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3wTS4JxcaUAzcDmsxIqQxk4iKGl2jjqHookZT_uUx_c2dnE9kSaGyag9nAH8a1FmId2z54ul7sYRaDzmfY5WOHRHNnh3qKG1lI-TTAk4fd0PVLn0oKIPOhl8BJyJq9oL_JK2GXVqsPz6a1WKea0TV7Yyw8RUSTFDodaAvgqYitevfa13Hyb38t8WFJco/s1162/Dividends%20daily%20record.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1162" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3wTS4JxcaUAzcDmsxIqQxk4iKGl2jjqHookZT_uUx_c2dnE9kSaGyag9nAH8a1FmId2z54ul7sYRaDzmfY5WOHRHNnh3qKG1lI-TTAk4fd0PVLn0oKIPOhl8BJyJq9oL_JK2GXVqsPz6a1WKea0TV7Yyw8RUSTFDodaAvgqYitevfa13Hyb38t8WFJco/s320/Dividends%20daily%20record.jpg" width="297" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>在布莎最後一個交易日同時收到了三份股息,不止協助12月成為單月最高、也是自己的單日最高股息薪水記錄,留念。</p><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">2023年即將完結,每年的這個時候總有不少人會檢討自己的過去和立下對明年的期許。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">想起某年尾時一位三十出頭的男人訴過的苦。當年年初時他把父母接到了他工作的地方同住,妻子沒有工作,全家的經濟壓力都靠自己來扛,近年尾時,他喜獲千金。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">別人眼中的喜,是他心裡的難。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">他說,白天在公司裡當老闆和上司的奶爸、需要細心呵護滿足他們的需求;晚上在家裡也需要當baby和家人的奶爸,協調家人的需求。生活不易,工作艱難;前方的路難走,背後的家難扛。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">忽然有一個小生命來到人世間,每天哭鬧,忽然母親病了,和老婆吵架了。上午母親看病,自己請假陪她去醫院,上司把今天沒完成的工作寄到他的email裡,他回到房間,戴上耳機,剛剛做完工作,就已經淩晨12點了。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">每天只有等妻子、孩子睡了,父母關燈了,自己才能走到書桌旁,拿起一本書,簡單地翻上兩頁,但很快睏意襲來,他強忍著不入睡,因為只有這個時候,才是一天中唯一屬於自己的時刻。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">其實,他也不是第一個在水星熊面前流淚的男人。已經有好些人,喝著講著,忽然淚流滿面。這些年水星熊很害怕別人哭,因為哭不過是表現形式,這背後的痛苦必然是長期累積,才會突然地表達出來。可是,自己精力有限,又怎麼來得及瞭解每個人背後的苦衷呢?</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">隨著年紀的增大,人們越來越容易懷念十幾二十歲的自己,雖然那時我們都希望快點長大。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">三十多歲,是一個上有老、下有小的年紀,也是一個容易在工作上遇到瓶頸的時期。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">但焦慮並不能解決問題,去面對那些讓你焦慮的事情,總比等待要好。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">可是大多數在水星熊面前哭過的人,並沒有調整,就焦急地開始了第二天的生活。接著,他們循規蹈矩一模一樣地過了24個小時,48個小時,96個小時....最後他們在生活的擠壓下,再一次流淚。抬起頭,面對的又是一個一模一樣的明天。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">這是你要的中年生活嗎?</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">打破中年危機的最好方式只有一個:持續不斷地突破自己,讓自己變得更好。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">慶幸自己的焦慮感來得比較早,26歲時意識到需要面對心中的焦慮,去面試新工作、獨自一人踏上國外打工族生涯,開始透過網路分享研究理財投資,通過部落格和面書分享文字,後來再集結成書,一步一步為今天的這份小小里程碑和記錄鋪路。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">寫字是水星熊和世界交流的方式,自己把想說的、想表達的,都塞進文字裡呈現出來。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">水星熊一直在寫,就像自己一直在努力生活、磨練和思考一樣,水星熊走得很慢,但是自己從來沒有停止過。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">一晃,水星熊也41歲了。這些年有了不少讀者。謝謝你們,一直在文字的海洋裡陪伴著水星熊。有些人説水星熊的文字陪伴過他們,可他們又何曾不是陪伴著水星熊呢?</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">2023最後一文,感恩這三份股息薪水為自己完美結束今年,也祝願大家在新的一年都能成為更好的自己。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br /></div><div style="outline: none;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="background-color: white; outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;" /></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-42861352981734055372023-12-26T18:07:00.000-08:002023-12-26T18:08:58.992-08:00好爸爸<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmEfH4eFDCsNwVceQxPtCcpiELbEQggDIJLK_R0-MX2em1ACp4tKea-1Leb56edMS_A_dakWqhBSVkbXdjMhXtIpGYjC9yDou8iu9L4ioMtyNKW9vON8hLk0rAvh-fCvzu0juQ-ayBv3vDNNdqKqYsJlo4XzGam3l_td4Tp7187pZjrJupSYVgFBWd7nQ/s1338/%E5%A5%BD%E7%88%B8%E7%88%B8%E5%9B%BE.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1338" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmEfH4eFDCsNwVceQxPtCcpiELbEQggDIJLK_R0-MX2em1ACp4tKea-1Leb56edMS_A_dakWqhBSVkbXdjMhXtIpGYjC9yDou8iu9L4ioMtyNKW9vON8hLk0rAvh-fCvzu0juQ-ayBv3vDNNdqKqYsJlo4XzGam3l_td4Tp7187pZjrJupSYVgFBWd7nQ/s320/%E5%A5%BD%E7%88%B8%E7%88%B8%E5%9B%BE.jpg" width="258" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在说小龍之前,先说说龍爸。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸年輕的時候是個司機,給老闆開車的。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">老闆看他機靈又穩重,很欣賞他。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">
</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他自己也很努力,在工作之餘取得了專業的文憑。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍媽最佩服龍爸的那股拼勁,她說不管生活把他扔進哪個坑裡,他都能自己爬出來。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">30</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲那年,龍爸開始坐辦公室,直到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">52</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲時成為公司的總經理。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">至於中間付出多少努力,經受過多少排擠和打擊,他從來沒提過一個字。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他說這些事情講多了龍媽只會擔心,什麼忙也幫不上。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他只希望在他的庇護下,小龍和龍媽永遠過著平靜的生活。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍上幼兒園的時候,龍爸還只是個基層員工,龍媽在一家購物中心當</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">promoter</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,兩人工資都很低,公司發</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">50</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">塊錢獎金都能高興半天,可龍爸對小龍從不吝嗇。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有一次,看到鄰居小朋友騎的自行車特別帥氣,小龍求他借來玩一會兒,他不肯,小龍有點兒失落。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸看在眼裡,當月領了工資后,第一時間帶小龍買了輛一模一樣的自行車。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍媽心疼錢,龍爸卻說,我們不能讓孩子受這委屈。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍任何時候想起這事,都由衷地覺得龍爸是世界上最好的爸爸,集英俊、能幹、顧家於一身。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">再後來,家裡條件越來越好。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">
</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍的高中成績不太理想,龍爸想安排他出國,小龍不願意。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">出國就得下苦功夫把英語練好,太累了,再加上國外人生地不熟的,到時候遇到困難只能自己解決,怎麼都不如家裡舒服。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸當時嘆了口氣,說但願他能健健康康地活到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">100</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲,永遠保護小龍。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍笑了笑,沒當真。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸每周游兩次泳,身體棒著呢,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">100</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲可能不行,不過</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">99</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲肯定沒問題。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">畢業后,小龍在龍爸下屬的分公司上班,可以說,職場新人該受的“磨練”小龍一頓都沒挨過。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">但凡有個頭疼腦熱小龍就請假,哪怕手頭的事情再重要、再著急,只要身體略有不舒服小龍都可以扔一邊。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">別人帶病堅持工作,小龍還特別不理解:“你們也可以像我這樣休息啊。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“至於出差,小龍專挑旅遊城市。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有一次,在曼谷沒玩夠,多待了兩天,回來之後,公司照樣給小龍全額報銷出差費。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">別人可能以為龍爸暗中托著小龍,其實並沒有。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸一直叮囑小龍的上司,好好讓小龍經受鍛煉,該批評就批評,不必顧及他的面子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍現在才想明白,只要有一個“好爸爸”,很多東西會主動送上門——善待小龍就相當於向龍爸示好。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">只可惜在人生順風順水的時候,小龍還以為在公司如魚得水,是因為他性格好、相貌好,討人喜歡。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">28</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲升為副經理,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">30</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲當上部門經理。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍得意地對龍爸說,自己比他能幹多了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸哈哈大笑後,語重心長地囑咐小龍,在基層大家拼的是專業技能,但職位越高,政治素質和管理能力就越重要。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍不以為然,生活哪有那麼複雜?就算學不會這些又能怎麼樣?該屬於他的東西一樣都不會少。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">變故發生於</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">1</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年前。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸不太對勁。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一天,本來他答應幫小龍接孩子,結果老師打來電話,說女兒已經等半天了,家長還沒去接。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍再打電話給龍爸,龍爸完全想不起來有這事。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有一次,全家一起去看電影,剛下樓,龍爸突然問,我們要去哪裡?這種狀況越來越多,他們就帶龍爸去做了檢查,醫生說這是阿爾茨海默病,俗稱老年失智。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龙一下子蒙了,龙爸才</span><span lang="EN-US">63</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">岁啊!</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">陪伴阿爾茨海默病患者的過程充滿了絕望。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸一天天地衰弱下去,漸漸分不清白天黑夜,漸漸叫不上小龍和龍媽的名字,甚至漸漸連洗手間都不會用了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">...... </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有一次他自己下樓后不知所蹤,全家都快瘋了,物業和警務站的工作人員全都幫忙找,最後在社區對面的超市找到他。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他應該是想進去看看吧,但超市太大了,他怎麼都繞不出來。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍買了個定位器裝在他身上,只要想起他,就打開手機看看他在哪兒,看到顯示的地點在家裡,小龍才放心。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">那時,他們從來沒有意識到,龍爸倒了,他們所擁有的一切都會失去。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">龍爸的事很快傳開了,分公司上上下下都聽說了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍還是小龍,從他開始上班那天起就沒變過,但以前沒人計較的問題現在都成了大問題:上班遲到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">10</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">分鐘,管事的大姐非說他影響了全公司的形象,一下子扣了他半天的工資</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有一次,在小龍部門交的報告中,小標題後面的頓號誤寫成了逗號,當著眾人的面,上司罵了他將近半個小時。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍的部門以前春風得意,需要什麼資源立刻就能拿到,他從來沒有為部門間的協調問題皺過一下眉頭</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">現在要什麼沒什麼,還動不動被挑刺,大家全都小心翼翼、如履薄冰。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍每天上班時心情都特別沉重,是他連累了部門的同事。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">剛開始的時候,小龍覺得太誇張了,至於這麼對他嗎?大家做了這麼久的同事,平時沒什麼矛盾,小龍從不在背後說人壞話,更不會使手段影響別人的升遷。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">最近才明白了,小龍得到的其實是別人讓渡給他的,他的存在帶給別人一種剝奪感。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他的公司招人其實很嚴格,筆試、面試好幾輪,別的同事都是千挑萬選才進來的,小龍倒好,隨隨便便就得到好的職位</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">別的同事天天加班才換來的升職機會,上司轉手就給了他</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">別的同事生病不得不硬扛著,就為了拿全勤獎,他左請假右請假,獎金卻一分不少</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">...... </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">這些不都是對公平的傷害嗎?大家應該早就積攢了很多怨恨和憤怒,以前不發作,只是礙於龍爸的面子。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">這些事情,小龍不敢告訴龍媽,她已經夠難受的了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">只是回顧以前,小龍特別後悔。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">
</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果當初一咬牙出國留學,現在不僅學歷更高、英語更流利,還擁有過硬的專業技能</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果他不進龍爸下屬的分公司,而是自己找工作,去一個陌生的地方奮鬥,可能早就成為職場強人了</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果在龍爸身體狀況還好的時候,小龍多找他聊聊,多學習他的人生經驗,那眼前的困境只能算小菜一碟。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">說來說去,還是得怪自己,他仗著龍爸的庇護,不斷地偷懶,一直到無人可靠,才被迫學著靠自己。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍考慮過辭職,上招聘網站一看,發現年紀大了工作真不好找。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他不介意從基層做起,但適合的崗位確實少之又少。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">前幾天小龍找公司的副總經理推心置腹地談了一次,她是少數幾個對小龍友善的上司之一。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">他說他以前不知天高地厚,把一切所得都看得理所當然,現在只想在公司好好待下去,但很迷惘以後的路怎麼走。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她說:「小龍啊,你唯一的路是好好工作,夾著尾巴做人。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">別人要挑刺,就讓他們挑,同事們心裡的氣再大,也有撒完的一天,只要他們認定你是個認真努力的好同事,態度會改善的。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她又列舉了好多小龍以前做得不當的細節。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她不說小龍還真沒察覺,原來小龍的優越感無形中早把人得罪光了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍說他</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">36</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她說她都</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">50</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲了,不還在報班學習?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">36</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲再不努力,明年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">37</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲,後年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">38</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲,等</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">50</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲的時候往回看,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">36</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">歲是多麼美好的年齡啊。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">聽了她的話,小龍心裡舒服多了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">
</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">以前太過樂觀,覺得人生的好運氣永遠也用不完</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">眼下似乎又太過悲觀了點,把一時的處境看成永遠。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一年要走過春夏秋冬,人生也會經歷高低起伏。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍現在特別想找龍爸聊天,聽聽他年輕的時候是怎麼一次又一次從泥坑裡爬出來的,只可惜已經沒有這樣的機會了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小龍心想:以前都是龍爸在照顧家庭,現在就由自己來照顧他吧。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><br /></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-83460481037818856372023-12-17T17:59:00.000-08:002023-12-17T18:00:03.784-08:00时薪有多少-2023<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3KsWKA89VPE9ezYaAewN-QUOJZ5m4amwLbqbmdwlE8Lb9w3Io54D4OyrdZNP_ZeOTHQRRrZE8vBaPf7iG773UT_URDSgYCKuBGZ_Ro-HXR17GJEKuodUM16WKC6cAO5XahQV0l4Pu6vXSi3vlk0Dt35rxgNNyHV5104zhjNPxQS0q08v22yz5Gm-Zubo/s1429/%E5%8D%8E%E9%98%B3nasi%20lemak.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1429" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3KsWKA89VPE9ezYaAewN-QUOJZ5m4amwLbqbmdwlE8Lb9w3Io54D4OyrdZNP_ZeOTHQRRrZE8vBaPf7iG773UT_URDSgYCKuBGZ_Ro-HXR17GJEKuodUM16WKC6cAO5XahQV0l4Pu6vXSi3vlk0Dt35rxgNNyHV5104zhjNPxQS0q08v22yz5Gm-Zubo/s320/%E5%8D%8E%E9%98%B3nasi%20lemak.jpg" width="242" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><br /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2023</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年來到尾聲,如常看到好些投資路上的戰友會</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">開始</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">為過去一年的戰績做檢討</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">,水星熊才突然想起已經停了三年的時薪系列。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">過去一年,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">水星熊最大的改變是從打工族變成了一隻失業熊。 除了生活地點從巴布亞紐幾內亞變成了馬來西亞,生活費用也從依賴主動收入變成了依靠被動收入。
所以想乘這個機會回顧自己退休后的時薪。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">基於本身的財政年份有所不同</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">, </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">不是落在十二月</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">而是根據自己的生日來設定在八月,固此十二月這結帳時機基本和自己無關。 所以,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">水星熊通常會在這時候從時薪角度回顧自己最近一個財政年的股息收入,檢討自己的時間價值之餘,亦能在新一年來到的前夕提醒自己投資的初衷。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">個人對股息的時薪演算法非常簡單不複雜</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">, </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">把你的總股本收入</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">/365日/24小時就行了</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">以此方程式,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">回顧開始寫《時薪有多少》這個系列以來</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">, </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">水星熊每年的股息時薪</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2013年:RM 1.91</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2014年:RM 2.75</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2015年:RM 3.97</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2016年:RM 6.72</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2017年:RM 6.78</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2018年:RM 8.65</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2019年:RM 11.19</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">2020年:RM 11.77</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2021年:RM 14.18</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2022年:RM 20.43</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">2023</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 13.3333px; text-align: justify;">年</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt; text-align: justify;">:RM 21.55</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">從最後一次寫這個系列時的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">2019<span lang="ZH-TW">年開始回顧:</span></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2020</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年正值</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">MCO</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">開始的時期,在疫情襲擊的第一年期間,因為前景不明朗,不少公司都對現金的使用比較謹慎和步步為營,特別是銀行業,因而減少派息的情況很普遍,所以</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2020</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年的時薪增幅也只有幾毛錢</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">; </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">隔年的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2021</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年派息額有開始恢復的跡象,時薪的增加也比較正常。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">而來到表現最精彩的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2022</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年,除了部分公司的“報復性派息”</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">,自己也為組合做了相當大的調整,包括賣出持有多年的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">PBB</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">和</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">Panamy</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">,把資金轉移到股息率更高的公司,所以該年也迎來了投資生涯中最大幅度的加薪,而且看回記錄,原來自己也是在該財政年賣出了一部分的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">FPI</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">拿回了</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">20</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">多萬的資金來清還房貸,以準備在</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">40</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">歲前退休的計劃,即便抽離了這筆資金,還可以有創紀錄的加薪,可見那是風生水起的一年。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-font-family: DengXian; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">接下來就是重要的里程碑:工作和退休參半的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2023</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">除了需要為退休資金存錢而很少把上半年的工作收入拿來投資,下半年也開始了依靠股息生活的日子,不能像以前一樣</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">100%</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">的把拿到的股息再投資滾雪球,所以加薪幅度也無法重現還在打工時的光輝,但能夠有一元多的加薪其實個人還是很滿意的。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">不要小看每一元的被動收入加薪,其實它就相等於每年</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">RM 8,760</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">或每月</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">RM730</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">的加薪了。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">而且和</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">2022</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">年比起來,其實也有著</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">5.5%</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">的加薪幅度,這可是有著不必工作也能為自己加薪的大前提,夫復何求。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-font-family: DengXian; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">如以前寫過的,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">雖然一般人更常以月薪來評估一個人或一份工作,然而,高薪的工作如果伴隨著緊湊的工作時間,佔用了自己絕大部分本該擁有的閒餘時間,計算下來,月薪較低但工作時間較短的工作,就</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">“</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">回酬</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">”</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">而言未必就比較不值,特別是對於能善用業餘時間來提升個人能力的人更是如此。 所以,時薪的計算往往比月薪更能看透我們的時間價值</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "PMingLiU",serif; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-fareast-font-family: DengXian; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">RM21+的時薪雖然聽起來平平無奇, </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">大概就相等於一位每個月做</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">22<span lang="ZH-TW">天、每天</span>8<span lang="ZH-TW">小時、拿著</span>RM3700<span lang="ZH-TW">月薪的普通打工族。 不過和打工族的關鍵性不同是,</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">股息薪水是一份我們在睡覺、旅行和玩樂途中也可以持續</span><span style="font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">24<span lang="ZH-TW">小時獲得的一份時薪,想到即使在沒有工作、每天都是星期天的日子也依然可以每天獲得</span>RM517<span lang="ZH-TW">的收入,即便失去了源自於工作的主動收入,</span></span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">內心依然會對生活感到無比踏實</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">。 </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">離開職場后的水星熊尤其能體會到這一點。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">這份時薪或許無法讓水星熊過上什麼大富大貴的日子,但如毛姆所說:“我用盡了全力,才過上平凡的一生”。
人,往往急於成長,然後又哀歎失去的童年</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">;<span lang="ZH-TW">以健康換取金錢,不久後又想用金錢恢復健康</span>;<span lang="ZH-TW">對未來焦慮不已,卻又無視現在的幸福,既不活在當下,也不活在未來。
有鑒於此,水星熊認為,與其拿自己的收入和別人比較,不如問問自己怎樣的生活才讓自己覺得最舒興。</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">另外,開始認真理財的這些年來的一個感悟是:做出改變的最佳時機是意識到“應該改”的時候,而不是“不得不改”的時候。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">你總覺得還有時間,而這,就是問題所在。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">所謂的高枕無憂,其實都是準備充分,不要在被逼上懸崖的時候,才來悔恨當初有想過但沒做過的計劃與念頭。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">水星熊花了約一小時完成這篇文章,寫稿的這段時間又有了額</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">外的</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">RM21.</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 10pt;">55進帳,當是寫文章的稿費, </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">可以到華陽吃碟美味的炸雞</span><span style="color: #333333; font-family: PMingLiU, serif; font-size: 10pt;">Nasi lemak</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10pt;">四十歲的退休生涯只是個開始,新的一年,水星熊想,我們都會活得更精彩。</span></p>
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text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><p></p>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-37589074535519079102023-12-13T17:37:00.000-08:002023-12-17T18:00:15.643-08:00卖出小耳窿?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgywry0ECQH4ht2VHh0bxeUCRw2T1uD5ncCFi9xXOIvG3Pbx-F_5_m54p4NswXY7but0LajSix8uZcJ-1QJVumUcJd63Bs-Ih_5qYRCOl4gT99SD669QUHbYG07DTVqIeR9UgEVl22FX-NcMQ1BO0tfuu4GngGUpwvlE7igZERg7t2SYU_MpIY-sBz31xM/s1998/rcecap%20price.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1998" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgywry0ECQH4ht2VHh0bxeUCRw2T1uD5ncCFi9xXOIvG3Pbx-F_5_m54p4NswXY7but0LajSix8uZcJ-1QJVumUcJd63Bs-Ih_5qYRCOl4gT99SD669QUHbYG07DTVqIeR9UgEVl22FX-NcMQ1BO0tfuu4GngGUpwvlE7igZERg7t2SYU_MpIY-sBz31xM/s320/rcecap%20price.jpg" width="173" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p>小耳窿8分的股息在昨天除權後,當天就填息了75%,這種速度已可謂光速,相當厲害。</p><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">在評論區看到一些人在思考應否趁高賣出的問題,每個投資者看重和在乎的標準不同,就個人而言,雖然不是唯一的考量,不過股息率確實是自己在衡量賣出一家公司的股份與否時的其中一個重要指標。一般而言,當預測股息率降到4.5%或以下時,該股會在自己心中響起“考慮賣出”的通知聲。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">以小耳窿為例,目前一年大約可以賺取每股20分的盈利,而它會把當中的80%用來派息,也就是16分,以4.5%股息率倒算,也就是在RM3.56左右的股價時會讓我開始有賣出的理由。身邊也有人要求組合里的公司至少提供5%股息率,換言之,當股價來到RM3.20左右的水平,就會成為被他們狙擊的賣出目標。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">誠如之前而言,股息率只是指標之一,賣出的原因可以有很多,比如公司因某種理由從根本上改變了未來的盈利,有更好的投資目標等。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">只要記得,自己賣出的理由不是因為被感性氛圍影響,而是理性的隨時把股價和價值掛鉤就好。不要讓自己陷入賺錢虧錢都痛苦的漩渦中。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="outline: none;" /></div><div style="outline: none;">真的抗拒不了誘惑的話,可以賣出一部分降低或拿回自己的成本價,設立足夠的安全邊際讓自己立於不敗之地,之後大可安心抱持低成本或免費的股份繼續收息。</div><div style="outline: none;"><br /></div><div style="outline: none;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background-color: white;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="background-color: white; outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div><div style="outline: none;"><br style="background-color: white; color: #1d2228; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; outline: none;" /></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-70640979208666011432023-12-11T01:56:00.000-08:002023-12-11T01:57:05.554-08:00GSC半马<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivDoGQR-GdR88H5M_iKgUh7XPii8pJJ4GScPGguLJMEXJG40qwRYV6s1Ezx_U0Sr4TtvdjezZqI0KRm3yn472aPOscMn8PW40Gilo6tw4SunQPTgWlR4d08VBMn4IKP0W2PgsNtWWHOx5J2wD7GEh1DPXAYaHG915QjlqF45SQS7hNL1I3fMAbZkBmNvo/s960/GSC%20MARATHON%20MEDAL.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivDoGQR-GdR88H5M_iKgUh7XPii8pJJ4GScPGguLJMEXJG40qwRYV6s1Ezx_U0Sr4TtvdjezZqI0KRm3yn472aPOscMn8PW40Gilo6tw4SunQPTgWlR4d08VBMn4IKP0W2PgsNtWWHOx5J2wD7GEh1DPXAYaHG915QjlqF45SQS7hNL1I3fMAbZkBmNvo/s320/GSC%20MARATHON%20MEDAL.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghn5tgIDGh91YAm2ve2eFBMVjirFZaMk_PNzwccKiOILoCftqzTJV7LRyP90evcvK4-EMnxfyAUorYOZbRmqfY9Nzb5uhLeZGPMjx-yPsC7KCpGNVRVRpjFMpPs5ft1gAuCQMqvmxXc7pPdUKAoBcbxOOKrdOK5Fy7MK8Jqj7lI4eeTHIn9dyGYAe4vPc/s960/GSC%20MARATHON%20RESULT.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="482" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghn5tgIDGh91YAm2ve2eFBMVjirFZaMk_PNzwccKiOILoCftqzTJV7LRyP90evcvK4-EMnxfyAUorYOZbRmqfY9Nzb5uhLeZGPMjx-yPsC7KCpGNVRVRpjFMpPs5ft1gAuCQMqvmxXc7pPdUKAoBcbxOOKrdOK5Fy7MK8Jqj7lI4eeTHIn9dyGYAe4vPc/s320/GSC%20MARATHON%20RESULT.jpg" width="161" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">昨天參加了GSC舉辦的半馬,雖然時間比首次參賽時稍微遜色,不過在抱小恙上陣的情況下可以平安完賽并排名在前20%的160名左右,已經很滿足。</span></p><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">大部分人的時間被一種“三八理論”分成了三個八小時:八個小時工作,八個小時睡覺,其餘八個小時自由安排。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">很多人連可以自由安排的八個小時也沒好好珍惜,得過且過,到頭來,只賺到了一大把年齡,就像股市裡的只賺指數不賺錢一樣,虧不虧?</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>而選擇以那種方式來渡過自己的八小時,並沒有確切的好壞之分,拼命充電或輕鬆玩樂,都有很多人在進行,但隨著時間的流逝,不同的安排一定會導致不一樣的生活。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">時間會看見我們的努力。我們的今天,不過是昨天選擇的結果,而我們的明天,也早由今天的選擇註定。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">說到底,人生也像飲水,冷暖自知。別人過得再好都只能參考,無法複製。但是,如果真要給即將步入四十歲的你絕對有用的建議,“做好健康管理”會是正解。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">無論是自己生病、或是親友抱恙的期間,水星熊深刻感受到病痛是如何一點一滴消磨人的鬥志,而懶散又是怎樣的一個頑強又可怕的東西。四十歲後,生理狀態開始走下坡,不能再毫無節制地透支健康。若想把此時當做人生一個新的開始,找個喜歡的運動堅持鍛煉身體,或許才是最實際的。</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">即便很難活出真正稱心如意的人生,水星熊還是覺得,能加把勁的自己,很好。</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="color: black; font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: medium; outline: none; white-space-collapse: collapse;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div></div></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-3489069762701557452023-12-01T18:48:00.000-08:002023-12-01T18:49:24.134-08:00如果當初選擇另一個就好了<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJB9jtBhr7sVTxs6jd3fq0CEoD3mNxPkuJv12FK5X2XihgoOaYWOXjOsW9WehSUH0ssVRLKUeCKM8UBLBcxyxQd3D4Nb_WIDGZtA3gkN-gDSNdRCB2ExzYdn4KzEldw94RTdnOk9759hCVsrgquNh4UL4XG7MQbBEqEvYvY0dzDKysurAyUJnj4969kMc/s1448/fisrt%20season%202024.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1448" data-original-width="1086" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJB9jtBhr7sVTxs6jd3fq0CEoD3mNxPkuJv12FK5X2XihgoOaYWOXjOsW9WehSUH0ssVRLKUeCKM8UBLBcxyxQd3D4Nb_WIDGZtA3gkN-gDSNdRCB2ExzYdn4KzEldw94RTdnOk9759hCVsrgquNh4UL4XG7MQbBEqEvYvY0dzDKysurAyUJnj4969kMc/s320/fisrt%20season%202024.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">41</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">歲的第一季轉眼就結束了,今年首季的被動薪水比去年要好上不少,主要是組合經過了調整,還有部分公司不按牌理出牌,或早或遲了一些派息而造就的。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">曾經有位朋友做了人生中一個挺重要的決定:結婚,然後定居外國工作。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">幾位好友為他餞行時,平時酒量不好的他,多喝了幾杯,漲紅的臉因為離別更顯哀傷。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">聊天時從語氣中可以感覺他對即將改變的生活感到不確定,也嘆了好幾次氣。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">水星熊說:「這種心情自己在做出離開大馬工作時也有過。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">別急著想你能得到什麼,想想你會失去什麼,能不能承受得住?如果可以,那我祝福你。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">他似乎略有所悟,心情有所好轉。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">年輕時,大家都在為選擇猶豫,感覺左右逢源,機會很多。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">到了三、四十歲,漸漸開始聽見一些後悔:如果當初接受他的追求,會不會就成了貴婦少奶奶?如果當初出國念書,是不是薪水會比現在多幾倍?如果當初辭職創業,搞不好是一間公司的老闆了?如果當初買的是房產而不是股票,現在距離財務自主會不會更近一步?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">人之所以喜歡問假設性的問題,做假設性的結論,是不是因為我們喜歡把不敢面對的事包裝成自我安慰?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">如果當初決定的是另外一個選擇,那麼現在的我,會不會不同?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">個人認為,答案是:不會。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">如果改變的僅僅是“選擇”,那麼未來的那個你依然不會如想像中那樣不同。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">除非,你改變的是“自己”。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">否則,在另一個選擇的世界裡,人依然會在同樣的懊悔中,繼續安慰自己“當初我選擇另外一個就好了”。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">無論是做出調整組合的投資決策,或是人生其它決定,很多外來因素會左右我們的選擇,甚至干預我們的決定。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">尤其那些干預決定的人,沒打算負責我們的人生,卻覺得有權利參與。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">總是一廂情願認為我們不懂得規避風險,兩害相權,反取其重。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">其實,選擇本身就是風險投資,冒著失去另外一個選擇的好處,承擔下定決心的那個壞處。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">人生不會很長,但人生中會有很多機會面臨選擇。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">它們誰也沒有比誰差,各有各的優缺點,你不能兩者都要,你只能選擇其中之一。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">意志堅定的人在選擇了之後,會去欣賞自己所選的美好,同時甘心承擔著相應的壞處</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">;</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">意志不堅的人則總認為當初的選擇錯誤,事實上卻有可能是你消耗掉這個選擇的好處之後,逃避去承擔它的壞處罷了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">沒有一種命運是完美的,我們僅能做的就是盡力去完美當下的選擇。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">人生是一次長跑,在終點之前,暫時的領先或落後都不算什麼。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">唯有認清現實,力求不斷精進與努力,才能讓自己有機會笑到最後。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">如果還是對自己的選擇感覺彷徨,不妨試想,從家人被大耳窿追債、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">26</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">歲才從零存款開始學習投資的水星熊,拿著一手爛牌走到今天,是不是可以讓你對未來有一點信心?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p> </o:p></span><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"> </span></p>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-42472685608813378872023-11-27T16:34:00.000-08:002023-11-27T16:34:52.816-08:00IG五週年<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4HqZlGR60rQ0_sjNAma0HcURVz3qQmlUVEVAtNeMHZP9rB1yMi29uDJfyL-72AJfVQfYfxqdwxydzTz5Z2_aHK5206qJCi_hjirX58DZpWQQuCmiBozQ0oRP5U-RJfL20njyLu0WjC81kTWawmnblgBMj0xav7qQCNF5uiJE3sHwgbdKxC1ZXmUXcpbE/s1951/Screenshot_20231128_083049_com.facebook.katana_edit_110101443211.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1951" data-original-width="959" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4HqZlGR60rQ0_sjNAma0HcURVz3qQmlUVEVAtNeMHZP9rB1yMi29uDJfyL-72AJfVQfYfxqdwxydzTz5Z2_aHK5206qJCi_hjirX58DZpWQQuCmiBozQ0oRP5U-RJfL20njyLu0WjC81kTWawmnblgBMj0xav7qQCNF5uiJE3sHwgbdKxC1ZXmUXcpbE/s320/Screenshot_20231128_083049_com.facebook.katana_edit_110101443211.jpg" width="157" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p>不知不覺,每日一post的IG就走過了5年,離開職場後還能繼續寫,也是一種熱愛吧。</p><p><br /></p><p>話說,無論是剛畢業或者已經在職場打拼了一段時間的你,如果你不知道自己熱愛的是什麼,找不到自己喜歡做的事,不要整天糾結,唯一需要做的就是努力賺錢,擁有一份屬於自己的小資產。</p><p><br /></p><p>有一句很世俗的話:詩和遠方都是需要盤纏的。我們想要去看更大的世界,經歷更豐富的人生都需要錢。很多時候,有了錢,你也就不會為“我是寒門出身的”所困擾與感到自卑。</p><p><br /></p><p>當你往這個方向去努力的時候就會發現,比起“我是窮家出身的人”,更讓你難過的是“我賺不到錢”。</p><p><br /></p><p>意識到錢很難賺,從而儘快補充技能,儘早獲得養活自己的能力,才是一個正向的循環。</p><p><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;"></span></p><div style="outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-family: DengXian; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-ascii-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Segoe UI";"><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: black; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 14.98px; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-88131036175988309282023-11-21T04:11:00.000-08:002023-11-21T04:23:47.903-08:00喚醒<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjswuin7Z-IENntcxLkOXf018ANO6SgF4KwXeVoN0we0VRm1ei3txXKLU1M32ZHr_Ah_d9bcpEpND0_45A1Cgldyi6ZMYwVvrdKm7rYJmZCW8zZ44IGqppPjzCYsWeYSVOqNQvRi-8awpGBMhCjkFLQ5Oa7cobZW5zYSETYxnBTKdvNl69oMcXohv6yi2Y/s1080/brown%20sick%20image.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="948" data-original-width="1080" height="281" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjswuin7Z-IENntcxLkOXf018ANO6SgF4KwXeVoN0we0VRm1ei3txXKLU1M32ZHr_Ah_d9bcpEpND0_45A1Cgldyi6ZMYwVvrdKm7rYJmZCW8zZ44IGqppPjzCYsWeYSVOqNQvRi-8awpGBMhCjkFLQ5Oa7cobZW5zYSETYxnBTKdvNl69oMcXohv6yi2Y/s320/brown%20sick%20image.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">小病了幾天,每次吃藥後腦子和身體都很蒙,趁現在精神比較好寫點字。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">很多打工族都說,希望喚醒自己的不是鬧鐘而是夢想,但讀者</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的故事沒那麼浪漫。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">改編分享。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">患上憂鬱症的時候,喚醒她的,是媽媽的噩耗。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的媽媽是個非常樂觀和開朗的人。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">她總相信世界很美好,好人有好報,所以她對朋友和家人都很願意付出,從來不吝嗇。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">她享受生活,衣著和心境都非常年輕。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">愛笑、愛運動、愛熱鬧、愛生命,特別是</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">長大成人可以照顧自己後,她總是快樂地到處旅遊,出外看看那大世界。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">她向來都非常尊重</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的任何決定,從裸辭到獨居,直到結婚,她永遠站在支持的一方,因為她相信每個人都有自己的生活方式。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">她真的很像一個溫暖的太陽,認識她的人都會認同這句話。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">直到一年前,媽媽被確診癌症,需要立刻接受手術和治療。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">完成手術的她,身體很虛弱,化療也為她帶來很多副作用,當然也直接影響了她的心情。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">那是</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">第一次看見她如此落寞,也對生命產生了很多疑問。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">作為家人,</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">可以做的只有陪伴,但直到被副作用折磨得很痛苦的媽媽哭著向</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">求救,問</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">:“怎麼辦?我很幸苦,我應該怎麼辦?”</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">才醒覺,原來媽媽不如自己想像中堅強,她也會脆弱,她也只是個普通人,她也有過不了的關口。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">在那一刻,</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">才第一次把媽媽獨立地當成一個人來看待,也許,從小就讓她依靠的媽媽,都是硬著頭皮撐過來的。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">人很容易有個錯覺,以為父母都比我們成熟。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">她把我們生下來,養大成人,理應性格、想法、處理問題的能力也比我們好吧?我們卻總是忘記,父母都只是普通人而已。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">我們也許會體諒同事的膚淺,嘗試遷就他們的做事方法,或會忍耐朋友的缺點,卻常常忘記了,父母也有自己的成長之道。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">父母的成長環境、生活習慣,也會在他們長大的過程中,留下不同的陰影和遺憾。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">他們不一定比較懂得處理困難,特別是子女受的教育和學習也可能比上一代來得多,能力也有可能會比父母強。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">有部日劇裡的一句對白:“如果寶寶是零歲的話,父母也是零歲。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> ”,</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">沒有人是生來就懂得當父母的,畢竟,父母也是在我們出生的那一刻起,才開始學習養育孩子。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">他們跟我們一起成長,除了要面對自己的人生課題以外,還要處理子女的大小事,也許在成長路上,比我們走慢了一點也說不定。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">當時內心很想堅強地守護著媽媽,大概因為</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">這一個想法,</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的戰鬥力大增,漸漸趕走了那些抑鬱情感。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">後來,陪媽媽複診的時候,醫生告訴</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">,由於</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的家族中已經有好幾位長輩患有同樣的癌症,所以醫生說</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">要有心理準備,這種癌症大概存有遺傳性,意指</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">以後的人生,會比普通人多</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">50%</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">機會換上同樣的癌症。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">這句在別人聽起來猶如噩耗的一句話,竟然像當頭棒喝一樣,喚醒了正在抑鬱情緒中掙扎的</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">原來,</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">覺得討厭、沉悶和平凡的日子,並不會一輩子都在。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">原來,</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的生命,比其他人更容易到達盡頭。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">不禁自問,她到底是不是已經可以了無遺憾的死去?如果不是的話,她到底還有什麼很想做很想嘗試?她是不是應該再努力一點看看能夠更接近她的夢想?</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">醫生這一句本來應該要把</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">推進深淵的話,反而在那個時機,拯救了她。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">水星熊聽完</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;">Amanda</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">的故事後覺得,原來人生苦短,並不只是電影臺詞或廣告對白,而是生命的本質。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">每個人都可以很接近死亡,或者換個說法,是死神很容易就能抓到我們。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">既然如此,我們又何必要趕著離場?趁和死神玩捉迷藏的這段時間,把能做的都做了,把想說的都說了,這樣,如果有一天突然被抓到了,留下的遺憾才可以更少。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">當明白到這件事以後,你就會知道,人生不應留給膽怯。</span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; text-combine: lines;"> </span><span lang="ZH-TW" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; text-combine: lines;">我們可以挑戰的有很多,可以學習的新事物也有很多,向著你想成為的大人模樣前行,向著你想到達的目標前進,即使離開之日我們未必能夠夢想成真,也至少讓自己死在通往夢想的路途上吧。</span><span style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-38485000845962177932023-11-12T21:56:00.000-08:002023-11-13T16:39:46.729-08:00不同的路 <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1BOveJTZqi4GjjGJAp-1VD3rw_KMIZOAamPfyHy6USBY5i-VuUcGFPegNN0W4VjmG5znDPaKewHuGFRb4SGlX3zCSoKuDw_9KMaEoGwiTILjCSqDnVoRx5o3ucIhLOdNLSpTrHEd7pVUvVp-OmfkakNE6fqcE5pCwmA-O7C5suFyLJ4m7QI1BbmnsS0o/s1563/Screenshot_20231113_135406_com.facebook.katana_edit_954317878536152.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1563" data-original-width="1200" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1BOveJTZqi4GjjGJAp-1VD3rw_KMIZOAamPfyHy6USBY5i-VuUcGFPegNN0W4VjmG5znDPaKewHuGFRb4SGlX3zCSoKuDw_9KMaEoGwiTILjCSqDnVoRx5o3ucIhLOdNLSpTrHEd7pVUvVp-OmfkakNE6fqcE5pCwmA-O7C5suFyLJ4m7QI1BbmnsS0o/s320/Screenshot_20231113_135406_com.facebook.katana_edit_954317878536152.jpg" width="246" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p dir="ltr">一個做老闆、一個打工族,兩個在PNG奮鬥的人在大馬相聚。</p><p dir="ltr">他從1995年起就比水星熊早16年到PNG發展事業,迄今還在哪兒努力;而懶惰熊則選擇在今年退出職場陣線,平淡生活。</p><p dir="ltr">即便是在同一個地方打拼,大家選擇的方向與方式是那麼的不同,但,都一樣可以活得很自在。</p><p dir="ltr">前個星期發表股息里程碑的相關文章後,如常的有人説“如果當年你把投資股票的錢拿來做xxx,現在的財務狀況肯定會更好。。。”</p><p dir="ltr">水星熊是不懂別人是以什麼為依據為水星熊做出這種假設和判斷,水星熊只知道自己很不喜歡售賣或推銷東西,所以創業、保險、直銷等需要在前線直接賣東西的領域真的不適合自己。股票或許在很多人眼中是風險高、不穩定,更不是最好的投資項目,但它可以讓買賣家雙方一言不發就完成交易的特質真是水星熊的大愛,是很適合自己個性的存在。</p><p dir="ltr">成功方法千萬種。</p><p dir="ltr">有人斜杠青年,可以一心多用同時做多種工作;</p><p dir="ltr">有人匠人精神,可以一輩子只專注做一份工作。</p><p dir="ltr">兩者都很棒。</p><p dir="ltr">水星熊會佩服那些有能力在我不擅長的領域做出成績的人,同時也覺得,沒有誰比誰好,大家開心就好。</p><p dir="ltr">身旁總會有很多人給予你各種善意的建議,在家有父母或兄弟姐妹,在學校有老師及同學死黨,出社會工作後有主管、同事及好友。一旦迷惘或困頓時,他們都願意分享自己的經驗與想法。當你舉棋不定的時候,他們也會主動提供該怎麼選擇的意見,甚至直接為你做決定。</p><p dir="ltr">隨著時間推移、經驗的累積,有些人開始懂得如何權衡好壞得失,懂得照顧自己。慎選並善用別人的建議,對於選擇的道路貫徹到底,錯了就自己負責,大不了再重新走一遍。</p><p dir="ltr">然而,總有些人在成長過程中早已習慣別人給予意見,讓別人來為自己做決定,就算決定是自己做的,也會先考慮別人怎麼想,而不是自己。表面上,看似尊重他人、體恤別人,實際上是一種不負責任的依賴,也是對自己能力的否定。於是,你有了失敗的藉口可以賴給別人,卻沒有破釜沉舟的決心去堅持到底。</p><p dir="ltr">在選擇自己想走的路之前,你可以猶豫,你可以擔心,你可以害怕,你可以請教意見,但最後絕對不要是為了別人、顧慮別人才做出決定,那樣的選擇不會是你真正想要的。你該決定自己的路,並且試著堅定、不放棄,這樣,即使最後失敗了,你也才不會後悔。</p><p dir="ltr">另外,也有些人並不是愛依賴,也不是不敢負責,只是行動前習慣深思熟慮,可惜比例沒抓好,想得太多而變得優柔,一下子擔心別人對自己的看法,一下子害怕自己受傷,過於轉牛角尖,結果動彈不得,什麼也做不了。</p><p dir="ltr">不妨試著以平常心來面對吧。要實現自我的理想,最重要的是你不再為了別人對自己的看法而感到心慌,當你能看淡那些對自己的質疑與不同價值觀,就能去做那些自己真正覺得美好的事、選擇那些自己真正認為最適合的道路。</p><p dir="ltr">當你不再依賴別人的肯定與外來的恭維時,你將發現自己不再被制約,內心也更加自在舒適。</p><p dir="ltr">水星熊想,用力在複杂的世界裡活得簡單,或許也是一種了不起的能力吧 🐻</p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; 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background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><div><br /></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-12736831028157799702023-10-29T17:41:00.001-07:002023-10-29T17:41:34.226-07:00 第一個一百萬(股息雪球篇)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVfxINJEPP3nLnqxdlLhNCLTcP9Jt-Duf9jmTZ663PMBzZEuADxpuY-B39aBpsJxsqS6M2E2JQ2Hy3_b6SMks-UW5-DJfuRlXUfSv4waqsia_mW9WD0HEuuLN7VCDvKGLT1Dpsp6g9RQOATqRNV3UbzdCj6CUiBvcytHdzO4sBX1Z9LgNy3riyF6B6dzA/s1467/Screenshot_20231010_124847_edit_180483046280449.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1467" data-original-width="1060" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVfxINJEPP3nLnqxdlLhNCLTcP9Jt-Duf9jmTZ663PMBzZEuADxpuY-B39aBpsJxsqS6M2E2JQ2Hy3_b6SMks-UW5-DJfuRlXUfSv4waqsia_mW9WD0HEuuLN7VCDvKGLT1Dpsp6g9RQOATqRNV3UbzdCj6CUiBvcytHdzO4sBX1Z9LgNy3riyF6B6dzA/s320/Screenshot_20231010_124847_edit_180483046280449.jpg" width="231" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>如標題所示,花了近15年的時間,終於。。。做到了 😭</p><p>其實這是9月份結束後的事情,現在時隔一個月才記得要寫。由於老虎和咖灰機相繼在該月份提前派息的關係,得以讓這些年來的累積股息level up到第十個一百千、也就是第一個一百萬的水平。</p><p>回顧自己這些年累積股息雪球的百千過程:</p><p>初次少量買股:15th Dec'08</p><p>開始大量買股:14th Mar'11</p><p>首個第一百千:31st Dec'15(從初次買股算起,用了七年又半個月)</p><p>第二個一百千:31st Aug'17(一年又八個月)</p><p>第三個一百千:30th Sep'18(一年又一個月)</p><p>第四個一百千:30th Nov'19(一年又兩個月)</p><p>第五個一百千:30th Nov'20(一年)</p><p>第六個一百千:31st Jul'21(八個月)</p><p>第七個一百千:15th Apr'22(八個月半)</p><p>第八個一百千:31st Oct'22(六個月半)</p><p>第九個一百千:2nd May'23(六個月)</p><p>第一個一百萬:30th Sep'23(五個月)</p><p>如前言提及,兩支主力的提前派息,讓此次的昇級速度來到了一個新記錄,僅花了5個月就帶領水星熊跨越里程碑。回看自己的歷程,從2008年年尾到2015年年尾,一開始花了大約7年時間才累積了第一個一百千的股息,然而,後來的從一百千到一百萬,卻只花了8年的時間就做到,雪球越滾越輕鬆的魅力,自己確確實實地親身體驗過個中滋味了。</p><p>翻查記錄,這15年間自己投資過的公司有43家,而這百萬累積股息的前5名貢獻者為:</p><p>MBB的約RM141k(持股期:5年半),FPI的RM140k(持股期:6年),Uchitech的RM131k(持股期:11年半),Matrix的RM101k(持股期:9年半),以及,LPI的RM87k(持股期:11年半)。</p><p>僅僅這5家公司就貢獻累積股息的60%,當中除了FPI以外的公司,目前都依然還在自己的主力組合之中,所以個人的投資特性似乎包含了“集中”和“長期”兩個元素。話雖如此,也并不會盲目依戀“長期”這個特質,畢竟公司是由人類組成的,而人心永遠是善變的,連帶公司也必定會有變化的可能,而股息的核心來源來自於盈利,故此,當某項變動讓公司未來的盈利受到影響,又或者在資金有限的情況下出現了更好更難得的投資機會,則有審視與調整我們的投資組合的必要。</p><p>至於這類型文章出爐後很常看到的“賺股息虧股價”之説,水星熊并不否認有市面上有這種案例存在,實際上還為數不少,不過,在虧錢者佔據了七、八成的股市而言,多數人失敗的理由,真的就只是因為他們買入了股息股而導致的嗎?還是説,他們僅是在為自己的投機心態尋求一個代罪羔羊?可能買入時是基於身邊人都在説xx公司/領域潛能高、當下派息突然也變得很豐厚,深怕錯失良機就不多做價值研究一股腦地追高買入,一段時間後拿到了股息卻也虧了股價,才發現當年的派息只是一時的時勢帶動造成的,並非公司本身長期的實力帶來的穩定派息,然後就此怪罪股息只是用來騙人入局的幌子,一切都是股息投資法的錯,他只是一個無辜的受害者,他不需要為自己的決策負責,絕不是因為他存股心態的變質、懶惰跟進投資項目的變化、人云亦云的跟風買賣、貪圖短期獲利的短視目光、對公司成長存有不實際幻想等等等的問題。</p><p>至少,請你告訴水星熊,是要如何做,水星熊才可以在十多年的期間,長期“賺股息虧股價”的情況下,還可以做到每年被動收入提昇、從數百元股息做到百多千股息的?臣妾做不到啊。</p><p>以前曾有過另一個百千系列,不過當時記錄的是淨資產的升級,寫到百萬等級時就停了,現在記錄的則是累積被動薪水,這系列也是時候停下了,畢竟往後的股息累積速度水平大概就是每半年一百千、或每五年一百萬的程度,應該也沒什麼好寫,能暗暗過上平淡安穩的知足常樂退休生活就好。</p><p>安穩在字面上的含義是安心穩定,每個人的“安心穩定”狀態,是不同的。就像水星熊為“安穩”下的定義是,有事可做、有人可愛、有基本的生活品質,沒有大幅的變動,沒有複杂的人際交流。不過,對於有些人來說,他需要做有挑戰的事,喜歡新鮮、有變化的環境,跟許多人交流來獲得能量與養分,在這樣的狀態下,他才會感到安心穩定。</p><p>所以說,人生沒有標準,如果有,那是我們自己的標準。</p><p>任誰都有自己的價值觀,包括水星熊也是。但,水星熊不會將自己的價值觀強加在別人身上,這是對他人思想與言論的尊重,這個世界並非只能遵守某些規則才能運轉,一個人也不會只能順從某種觀念才能生存,好比水星熊常説的,股息路并不是投資的唯一生存之道,自己只是想分享其中一種普通人也可以做到的方法。</p><p>水星熊寫的文字都是自己所信仰的、所認同的人生價值,有些是自己一路走來的歷練所形成的,有些是自己正在實踐的處事觀念,有些則是期許自己要學習並努力的方向與目標。</p><p>這世界已經充斥太多負面的情緒與壓力,我們應該給自己更多正面的觀念與能量。環境通常不會讓你稱心如意,我們只能調整自己看世界的心態。身處逆境之中已經夠討厭了,別讓自己再雪上加霜,而要試著從中自得其樂。生活未必能時時快樂,但至少要過得舒服自在。</p><p>最後,水星熊想告訴你:很多事情、很多道理,並不一定是做到了才能相信,而是你先相信了才會做到。</p><p>有人説越努力越幸運,那平凡的前打工族水星熊就用時間換天分。</p><p><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><div style="outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; 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background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div><div><br /></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-65257983937111573552023-10-26T23:12:00.008-07:002023-10-26T23:13:25.254-07:00在天堂遇到的五個人<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjywyFOd43sAovCXuhuLrSk787uVLfmtymM5s-vIeRDdYvNlROx8sh4sqf5h3qS47zd_b0tGIakZd2Uxv7F1_1UbMRW8uxVGnTo1HaUXiKxXB7ST00QGYmQz5o4JQk55V0Im20IrXdRxt5DduWjjnmkrGpltIVQlp1eDKp6l0GJfsj7k9XzStC0bc4b65c/s1200/Screenshot_20231027_141008_com.facebook.katana_edit_520127666410216.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="896" data-original-width="1200" height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjywyFOd43sAovCXuhuLrSk787uVLfmtymM5s-vIeRDdYvNlROx8sh4sqf5h3qS47zd_b0tGIakZd2Uxv7F1_1UbMRW8uxVGnTo1HaUXiKxXB7ST00QGYmQz5o4JQk55V0Im20IrXdRxt5DduWjjnmkrGpltIVQlp1eDKp6l0GJfsj7k9XzStC0bc4b65c/s320/Screenshot_20231027_141008_com.facebook.katana_edit_520127666410216.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p dir="ltr">這個星期還是首次可以好好獨自一人坐下來吃午餐看書,終於追完了《在天堂遇見的五個人》😚</p>
<p dir="ltr">以男主角死去作為開場,然後他在天堂遇見過去和自己生命有重要聯繫的五個人,挺有意思的故事。</p>
<p dir="ltr">印象較深刻的其中一段情節是:</p>
<p dir="ltr">男主想起父親下葬之後的幾年。想到自己那幾年的一事無成,哪兒也沒去。那段日子裡,他曾經在心中想像過某一種生活 —— 一種“本來可以怎樣”的人生,但都是因為父親撒手人寰的緣故,導致那份本該屬於他的人生沒有出現。這些年來,他把那份幻想中的生活加以美化,而且把所有損失都算在他父親頭上。他説:“父親死的時候,他也帶走了一部分的我。從此之後,我就被困住了。”</p>
<p dir="ltr">蠻典型的把責任怪罪到他人的例子。</p>
<p dir="ltr">有時會覺得,生活並不是你活過的樣子,而是你記住的模樣。</p>
<p dir="ltr">如果覺得生活苦,那麼別去尋找舒服的方式讓自己輕鬆,而是去做一些讓自己更苦的事情,例如學習。</p>
<p dir="ltr">因為只有吃了學習的苦,才能避免生活的苦。兩者不同的是,學習的苦主動,生活的苦被動。所謂被動,就是你什麼都不做,它自然而然會來。同樣,什麼都不做就會到來的東西還有以下兩件:貧窮和衰老。</p>
<p dir="ltr">所以,請主動成長、主動學習,而不是老怪罪於自己的出身。寒門的確難出貴子,但不是不能,而學習是最廉價的方式。</p>
<p dir="ltr">你向前走,苦才會後退 🐻<br />
</p><p dir="ltr"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(馬來西亞):</span><a href="https://shopee.com.my/product/243958840/9617803582/" style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》</a></p><div style="outline: none;"><p style="color: #666666; font-family: "Trebuchet MS", Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 15.84px;">著作網購鏈接(新加坡):<a href="https://shopee.sg/%E6%89%93%E5%B7%A5%E6%97%8F%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E8%B7%AF-40%E5%B2%81%E9%9D%A0%E8%82%A1%E6%81%AF%E6%8F%90%E6%97%A9%E9%80%80%E4%BC%91-%E5%88%9B%E9%80%A0%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E7%99%BE%E4%B8%87%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F-%E6%B0%B4%E6%98%9F%E7%86%8A%E8%91%97-i.268024452.2920516199" style="color: #2288bb; text-decoration-line: none;">《打工族股息路》SG</a></p><p dir="ltr" style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; 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mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW;"></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-TW" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-20029958057758677272023-10-19T22:27:00.010-07:002023-10-20T07:28:14.658-07:00退休半年 <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSQCVLW0FRhxpFr2shGHUX8_xqeJmO0iESFzh6I8eb2zlAbYtX34GZBbWYpEoOrWdwiMn55ERsIuvrMbY0f7JRko32xEQVxLGFSHSO_ITVN2kSIX64v-vPAtXpeQj2p48EfoN4dzDGpfxcg5ch3My-LaVO6_othLgHsUQ7CLbUROTWFjiIG0TfuldEyXk/s1491/Screenshot_20231020_132536_com.facebook.katana_edit_349623060947692.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1491" data-original-width="1200" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSQCVLW0FRhxpFr2shGHUX8_xqeJmO0iESFzh6I8eb2zlAbYtX34GZBbWYpEoOrWdwiMn55ERsIuvrMbY0f7JRko32xEQVxLGFSHSO_ITVN2kSIX64v-vPAtXpeQj2p48EfoN4dzDGpfxcg5ch3My-LaVO6_othLgHsUQ7CLbUROTWFjiIG0TfuldEyXk/s320/Screenshot_20231020_132536_com.facebook.katana_edit_349623060947692.jpg" width="258" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p>不知不覺,就退休半年了 😳</p><p><br /></p><p>圓夢後,太陽照樣升起,水星熊照樣去家附近那間熟悉的檔口,買nasi lemak,搭配一杯Neslo冰。</p><p><br /></p><p>即使達到了夢想的位置,喜悅往往只有一天,接下來就是新的挑戰,甚至是更大、更艱難的挑戰,唯有這樣,你才會脫胎換骨,變成一個更好的自己。</p><p><br /></p><p>當我們拼盡全力的時候,偶爾也要停下來問問自己:我這個用力,背後是不是意味著我想要快速得到結果而開始急躁。如果是,那就放慢速度。</p><p><br /></p><p>水星熊也在用力生活,但是用力得慢了一些,也堅信慢慢來更適合水星熊。因為水星熊做的事情不是嘩眾取寵的,也不是馬上可以得到結果的,慢慢來,走得會更穩、更久。</p><p><br /></p><p>不願意花時間等待成功的人,沒有資格問為什麼會失敗,因為成功很多時候就是“熬”出來的。</p><p><br /></p><p>正如巴菲特那句名言:任何一支股票,如果你沒有把握能夠持有十年的話,那就連十分鐘都不必考慮持有。</p><p><br /></p><p>對熱愛的事情也一樣,如果你堅信自己會愛這件事十年,那就十分鐘都不要猶豫,立即投入其中,十年之後你會看到一個不可想像的自己。</p><p><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; 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background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; color: #050505; font-family: DengXian;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: DengXian; mso-ansi-language: #7C04; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span></p><p style="color: #333333; font-size: 13px;"><span face="Trebuchet MS, Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-size: 15.84px;">大眾書局網購鏈接 :<a href="https://www.popularonline.com.my/sgchinese/catalog/product/view/id/180425/s/9789671873625/" style="color: #5588aa; text-decoration-line: none;">大眾書局網購鏈接</a></span></span></p></div>水星http://www.blogger.com/profile/08751867098140741554noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8640548720142298079.post-16795136672416790382023-10-15T17:49:00.007-07:002023-10-15T17:50:43.063-07:00伴侶的錢<p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUuAhgKWTnrYhQ1yh-2v8WNgsYOkphFRXmjNbO54988P1N9KPOyoBq9U26khImcAYyyMwaC9nv8p3PXPdFxDrt5EjpUvDmhJCAG9zvEaBCOTqfaqeGq4izJPp0EsaJcXvZJrQ8x7aWbHQYdR862lPFa-goNwF5SD-_ECPMR8ZtUzRET-iNukNumecTt8Y/s1448/IMG_20230605_112739_resized_20231016_084624790%20(1).jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1448" data-original-width="1086" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUuAhgKWTnrYhQ1yh-2v8WNgsYOkphFRXmjNbO54988P1N9KPOyoBq9U26khImcAYyyMwaC9nv8p3PXPdFxDrt5EjpUvDmhJCAG9zvEaBCOTqfaqeGq4izJPp0EsaJcXvZJrQ8x7aWbHQYdR862lPFa-goNwF5SD-_ECPMR8ZtUzRET-iNukNumecTt8Y/s320/IMG_20230605_112739_resized_20231016_084624790%20(1).jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p> 《奇葩説》其中一集的辯題:“伴侶的錢是不是我的錢?”</p><p>就像金星說的,世上大部分人不會輕易把錢交給別人,哪怕你是法律上的合法伴侶,如果有人願意交給你,那就是你額外得到的禮物,不足以當成一般的樣本來做典範。</p><p>對於多數人而言,應該都是從一開始的經濟獨立,而後過渡到財產共用,但水星熊反而比較認同金星所說:我們的錢可以共同放在一起,但是在我的心裡,我從來不會把這些就當成絕對是我的財產了,它放在那裡是我的愛人對於我的尊重,也是對於我們未來的守護。金星説她永遠覺得在心裡這些錢不歸屬於她,想明白了這一點,她反而不會難過,而是讓自己在精神上更加獨立,然後自己繼續努力去賺錢。</p><p>曾有位女生讀者寫信給水星熊,她的男友在另一個城市幇她找到了一份工作,想要她辭職然後和他一起離鄉背井去外地生活和發展,她很愛男友但不是很想去,因而苦惱。</p><p>兩個人如果成家立業生活在一起,選擇一個城市是極為重要的問題,但是水星熊很反對那種“為了愛情於是來到他的城市,然後為了他付出了自己的一切”的聖母價值觀。</p><p>想説的是,任何一個人如果為了一個情人要去到他的城市,水星熊希望你的這種“為了”不僅僅是“為了他”而已,水星熊希望你有意願在那個城市建立自己的事業,建立自己的人際關係,建立自己對於那座城市的好感的決心跟規劃,否則如果你到了他的城市,僅僅只有他的圈子跟世界,那麼這份感情的維繫很難長久。</p><p>對於女生而言,很多時候社會上一些看起來常規的法則就會輕易改變自己某個階段的選擇,甚至改變自己的人生命運。</p><p>身邊有部分人因為當了媽媽,然後丈夫收入還不錯的親戚或朋友,就想著乾脆在家當全職媽媽。這樣的選擇其實沒有錯,但是最怕的就是她自己除了當媽媽這個角色,就再也沒有別的生活了,什麼逛街、聊天、朋友聚會也不會再有,她的世界只剩下老公跟小孩這兩樣東西。</p><p>在非洲工作時認識的一個姐姐,之前在公家機構上班,後來嫁給老公後就不再工作了,她的老公很是愛她,每個月買很多的保養品和衣服給她,疼愛了她十年,總是説,“你的任務就是給我打扮得美美的,知道嗎?”</p><p>離開非洲後的某年和她聯絡,她告訴水星熊自己離婚了,問她原因是什麼,她的回答很乾脆直接:男人就那樣,膩了吧。</p><p>水星熊至今仍記得她跟水星熊說過的一個細節。她發現自己的老公變心後,有一天她跟老公要錢買東西,老公沒好氣地問她要買什麼,家裡不是什麼都有了嗎?她回答説要去買衛生棉,老公摸索了半天才把錢掏出來給她。</p><p>她告訴水星熊,那個伸手等待的幾十秒裡,是她這輩子最屈辱最難受最五味陳雜的幾十秒,也是她第一次覺得不能為自己做主的被動滋味有多麼痛苦。</p><p>這個個案或許有些極端,但不要期待一個人一輩子都不會變。我們自己也都會經常出現各種價值觀,過了一段時間覺得不對了,不合適了,於是開始推翻,再換另一種價值觀,所以又怎麼能期待同樣生而為人的他,也能保持一輩子只對你好的價值觀呢?</p><p>一個女人努力賺錢,那是為了自己高興的時候,也能入手喜歡的一件衣裳;她成為妻子,那是為了遇上對的人的時候,加入一份願意照顧另一個人的期待與責任;她成為母親,也是為了感知這個世界關於傳承力量的偉大。。。。這些種種,之於男人也一樣成立,大家不過都是為了在這個社會中活出適合自己的人生角色罷了。</p><p>我們要的是生活本身,我們要的不過是尋找一個能夠陪自己走一段路的人,一起感受分享這個世間的冬暖夏涼。當然,如果這個人不能和你一輩子在一起,期待你不要成為怨婦或者怨夫。</p><p>用佛學的觀點來說,任何一種結果都是有原因的,犯不著再去計較過往的日子裡,誰比誰的付出更多一些,因為最重要的,是接下來的人生裡,我們該過得怎樣,我們想過得怎樣,僅此而已。</p><p><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""helvetica neue", helvetica, arial, sans-serif" style="color: #666666; 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text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghZkwSGlE3eqFYNcHl1fdTrw9jT1PSpSacNPhjy7Rb87AUKSTpCuZ2j6NHdE3vHCc1dLI9abQOCBW0Cj7mKgNZIiBEjLNp4ZJtlLY_fkkpKRsCJFmXWVnCX9EtQLTdIj1Ix_gYbug6myQCp5z4u2k7j56hO-ZbAXelrddwDXlvEOibvBDtER8pBIUqvTk/s1589/Screenshot_20231006_122418_com.facebook.katana_edit_48985666850336.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1589" data-original-width="1200" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghZkwSGlE3eqFYNcHl1fdTrw9jT1PSpSacNPhjy7Rb87AUKSTpCuZ2j6NHdE3vHCc1dLI9abQOCBW0Cj7mKgNZIiBEjLNp4ZJtlLY_fkkpKRsCJFmXWVnCX9EtQLTdIj1Ix_gYbug6myQCp5z4u2k7j56hO-ZbAXelrddwDXlvEOibvBDtER8pBIUqvTk/s320/Screenshot_20231006_122418_com.facebook.katana_edit_48985666850336.jpg" width="242" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p dir="ltr">到醫院跑個步來檢查看心臟還能否承受得住股市的動盪,醫生説只要好好存股、不要炒股,應該就能活到我滿意的歲數 😜</p>
<p dir="ltr">等報告的時間蠻長的,就寫幾個字。</p>
<p dir="ltr">想提早退休的理由之一,就是出生以來就伴隨著的心臟有孔症。</p>
<p dir="ltr">它也讓水星熊思考,這個世界上,誰的出生不是無從選擇?誰的生活沒有無可奈何?唯一不同的是,有的人,會竭盡全力掙脫生活的左右,而有的人,卻一直被生活左右,只能在不甘裡仰望別人的精彩,甚至瞧不上人家的精彩。</p>
<p dir="ltr">有的人,無論如何都不會相信你,即使,他每一個不相信的刁難,都被事實反擊,他還是不會承認你的能力。</p>
<p dir="ltr">有時候,不是你做到了,就一定會被認可;不是你證明了,別人就會相信。交流中的最大障礙,就是認知能力差異。即使你再用力解釋,再用力證明,不相信你的人,始終都不會相信你。</p>
<p dir="ltr">一個人的經歷和他的認知能力,決定了他的理解能力。</p>
<p dir="ltr">以前,如果遇到不講理的人,水星熊會非常生氣,但來到現在,當我因他人的無知而感覺不可理喻時,我會告訴自己,他們認知能力有限,沒有能力懂你,因為有的人,無論如何,都不會相信你。既然改變不了結果,不如由他去了,然後很快複歸心平氣和。</p>
<p dir="ltr">接受不能改變的,也是一種能力,所以,離不相信你的人遠遠的就可以了。老天自有安排,你只負責精彩。一件事不會因為他們相信或不相信,就有可能或不可能成功。</p>
<p dir="ltr">好比不相信股息之路的人并不罕見,但走過了十多年後就明白,別人的相信與否並無影響自己靠股息財務自主的計畫成功與否。</p>
<p dir="ltr">人生只有一次,活給別人看實在太奢侈,寧可因為真實的自己而被討厭,也不要因為偽裝的自己而被喜歡。</p>
<p dir="ltr">別讓合不來的人,帶走了最好的你。<br />
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